and they usually try to be that perfect person, how do they feel or react. My ex was caught in one big lie, and he could't really talk to me on the phone, it had to be online. And then, I found out more and more lies about him. When I confronted him he would completley ignore me and not want to talk to me at all. He got angry and told me that we should not speak anymore.
When we did sort of speak, he tried to turn things around on me and make me feel I was at fault for certain things I had nothing to do with. Is this typical behavior of a 29 yr, well educated teacher? Is it was because he tries to be so perfect he actually beleives the lies he says or is he just a huge liar altogether. Are compulive liars in a way manipulators?
2007-02-25 03:01:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Compulsive liars create their own reality where their lies and truths are not seperate. When confronted with the irrefutable truth, they get confused and angry, as if being awoken suddenly from a dream, and will usually strike out at the person who confronted them. They feel embarrased and create an excuse for the lie, so it is not at all surprising that they turned it around on you. Yes, in a way, he does actually believe his lies. He must convince himself before he can convince others. Yes Compulsive liars are huge manipulators. They try to manipulate reality to suit their needs at the expense of everyone elses needs. EVENTUALLY, they do get tripped up. It's impossible and an awful lot of work, to keep track of all the lies.
"Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes to be true."
2007-02-25 03:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by james B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say or ask is why do women get involved with this crap??? I am an honest, Christian man and all I meet are women who lie or women who are comfortable in their bad relations with liars. I cant' find a woman who is honest and wants to be with an honest person. The world is messed up !!!!
2007-02-25 03:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by chazzer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is a lier.
Can you really trust this man to be honest with you?
He sounds like a big manipulator.
Be careful. He sounds like a crazy-maker.
2007-02-25 03:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a pyscopath. Stay away from him.
2007-02-25 03:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋