i n my frnd were really good frnds bout 1 yr ago....until d day i betrayed her...i started lying bout her spreadin gossip..etc etc..now i really regret all dis.. i really want her back as a frnd but she doesnt even spk to me...i have tried spkin to her n i have said sorry a millions times...but yet she doesnt 4give me what should i do??????
2007-02-25 02:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't sit around whining about it now after you stabbed her in the back.
She feels just like I would if someone did that to me, i would never have anything to do with them again.
Stab me once, shame on you, stab me twice shame on me.
She is making sure you don't ever get the chance to do that to her again,
If she was your freind and felt really close to you and you did that to her, she had to be hurt really bad.
Just leave her alone, she isn't interested, find new friends and learn from your mistakes.
2007-02-25 02:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying your sorry isn't enough. You are going to have to win her trust and respect back. She's probably afraid that you will betray her again. So start working on gaining her trust & respect back. When she sees that you are sincere the forgiveness will come. Ask yourself this: Would you forgive someone that spread gossip about you? Work on the trust issue and things will get better. Good Luck.
2007-02-25 10:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling her your sorry. She might like having you admit your wrong. So just stop caring about her. She might wonder why your not apoligizing anymore and then shell wish she would have forgave you. Get some more friends and hang out with them. When she trys to talk to you answer her. Dont ignore her! If she wants to be included with your new friends let her. I hope that helped!
2007-02-25 10:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by ccc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You ruined her reputation and were very mean to her. She wants nothing to do with you. Find a new friend. Maybe next time you'll think twice before stabbing one of your friends in the back.
2007-02-25 10:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm thats bad bad bad bad.well keep on trying..but with me once a friend betray me our friendship will never b the same. come on if she really trusted u b4, u should know that its not gonna be ez for her to go bck 2normal with u aft.w/e u did.
2007-02-25 10:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
there is really nothing else you can do. you have told her that you are sorry and that you would like to have her back as a friend. all you can do is hope that someday she will be willing to do that,until then go on with your life and have fun, don't worry about it any more.
2007-02-25 10:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and you want her back as your friend and how you really regret it, find a way to gain back her trust
2007-02-25 10:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by lils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were her, i would not speak to you either!!!....
Lying abt me..........spreading gossips!!!?? Gosh!!
Its time you find a new firend!
And pls dont do this to your new friend!!!
2007-02-25 10:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really were friends.. she'd forgive you
2007-02-25 10:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by blue.dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waite more
2007-02-25 10:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋