Theres this boy that likes me but i dont like him.He always writes love note from hearts.How should I tell him I dont like him with out hurting him.
Also theres this boy that I have a crush on he's sweet and cute how should I tell him I like him and how do i know if he likes me?
Answer these two questions. The person that helps me the most will get best answer!Please Help!
2007-02-25 02:13:03 · 15 answers · asked by Brooklyn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also the same thing just happened to my sis a week ago and she's only 10 can u tell me what to tell my sis to do too?
Thanks
2007-02-25 02:31:04 · update #1
Theres also this boy my sister likes she doesnt know what to do and how to ask him the boy she likes had a girlfriend before but they broke up my sis wants to be his girlfriend but she doesnt know if he likes her. my sis is in the 5th grade she liked the boy since 2nd grade
2007-02-25 03:18:25 · update #2
A boy doesnt like my sis she likes a boy sorry for any confusion
2007-02-27 11:17:40 · update #3
Can you be anymore confusing? JK!! OK I'm going though the same thing right now too. My advice, if I have any, is to NOT tell the guy that likes you that you like someone else and want to marry the other guy. They could be friends. Tell him your not really interested in him but can you stay friends. Don't mention anyone else, make it like you have all the time in the world to be with him AS FRIENDS! Don't insult him, hit him, or make him think anything other wise.
Make friends with the guy you like. Also meet his friends but don't make it look like your stocking him. Don't get to connected. Drop little hints. But ONLY LITTLE. For everything DO NOT ASK HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ask his friends maybe... Have fun with the opposite gender! And good luck!
2007-03-04 13:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tony the Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that got a T-shirt!! I know the aggravation but really in truly you have to stand firm in what you say you can't be too friendly or then he'll think it's working and he's winning your heart. But then you can't be too harsh either then he'll think you hate his guts. You have to the mature on here and tell it to him straight no beating around the bush believe you me it makes it worse. To be honest you will hurt anyway because you are not returning his love for you, you are hurting him, sorry. But it how you do it that determines the damage. If you are truly sincere about your feeling that you don't like them he should be able to understand and agree to leave you alone. Stern but gentle with your words that how you deal with it.
Okay with this other guy you are going to be brave again and tell him your feelings. I think the most you fear is his rejection, I mean who who likes that feeling(the guy in the previous question can answer that one). If the guy is comfortable around you then you know that he is cool with you. If and when you tell him that you have feelings for him it should be in a quiet place away from everything and everyone. It's his choice whether or not he will return your feeling if he does then you are one lucky girl if not then cry a little pick-up your heart and wait for Mr. Right. But don't I repeat don't become like that guy who keeps bugging' you.
2007-03-05 09:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Vamphyre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to the guy that likes you that you like him as a friend. To the guy who you have crush on does he seem to show he likes you? I guess you should find that out by asking him out for coffee or tea? Find out if you have something else in common besides how cute or hot you think he looks.
Sometimes once you get to know the person beyond their looks that's when you find out whether or not you like them as they are. I have met people in my youth that I throught were really attractive. Some I found that I didn't really relate on a much deeper level with them so looks alone doesn't mean any thing.
Get to know both guys as they are. Who knows maybe you mite change your mind about the other guy? I don't know but stranger things have happened.
It gets worse when five guys like you all at once then you really have to make a choice. It's like picking chocolate's out of a candy box. lol Just kidding of course. I tend to see the humour in life.
The best way to evaluate a guy that you like is make a check list of things that matter to you the most.
What you both find as Interests.
Sharing your common interests.
How well you get along.
Do you like the whole person and not just how they look.
Think about all those and see where it takes you?
2007-03-05 08:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself, tell him that you'r not the only person in the world for him to like, that you can't promise him good things in a relationship and that you want him to be happy with someone who would care for him better than you do. He'll understand. About your sis, whenever there is a friends- get together have her invite the boy she like over, and if he agrees to come she'll talk to him sometime in the party, until they get in a conversation that will lead if he like her or not, thats the best i can try since im in a small hurry now..........................good luck!
2007-03-05 09:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with that guy who likes you and just tellhim that you don't like him. Be VERY sinerce about this.
One way you can tell if a guy likes you is 1) He flirts with you, 2) He's kind to you and is always around you, and 3) always ask whats wrong if your upset in a sinerce way.
How to tell a guy that you like can be hard. You can 1) Give him a note saying that you like him, 2) Get you best friend to tell him for you, or 3) Gather up all your courage and tell him when you get a chance to be alone together.
2007-03-04 14:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by resse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright the easiest thing to do with the first boy is just tell him, and the longer you wait the harder it's going to be for him. You may not be trying to, but by taking the notes and all your kinda leading him on. Now as for the second guy, the only thing you can do is talk to him and maybe drop a few hints. Ask him if he ever goes to the movies and such. If he doesn't ask you to go to a movie or whatever than ask him. Guys aren't"t as hard to work with as most girls make us out to be.
2007-02-25 10:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well 1st the boy who likes you but you don't like- well you will just have to be straight with him!! tell him that you just want to be friends!! the truth is that no matter how you do it , it is still going to hurt him a little but you can't help that. Just be really kind in how you do it though.
2nd the boy who u like- well you just get him so its just you and him and just talk to him tell him exactly how you feel (but not to full on) just say some think like Oh look i have liked you for a while i think you sweet and cute and i was wondering how you felt about me?say some think like that!!!
i hope that helps you out!!!
2007-02-25 10:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Louise r 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First ask your friends to ask the boy u like if he says no move on if he says yes then ask him out.
Then tell the other guy that you are already taken, if the other guy dumps you then say that your going out with me alex vance im hot and a avaliable im 16 by the way
2007-03-03 12:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the guy who likes you: I've been through the same thing numerous times (lol) and I say that I do like you, but not in the same way you like me, and that we should just leave it at that. About the guy who likes you: ask him out! if you're not comfortable asking him out then just slip a few hints that you're interested. Btw, there's no way of actually knowing if a guy likes you unless he tells you. Good luck!
2007-02-25 10:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hmms .. if i was you .. i would let the first guy kno that ur really not interested .. then with the second guy i would wait .. let him come to you .. & if after awhile u get tired of waiting .. jus talk to him .. sometimes that can be a problem .. so just wait as long as you can lol .. then tell him how u feel .. if i knew ur age this would b a lil easier to answer .. well hope this helps
2007-02-25 10:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by chriisyxlovesxyou 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋