help from ladies?

Question

why are women so turned off by the fact that i want a women who will cook, clean the house, and take care of the children if we had some. i have a great job, and she doenst need to work. i just want something old fashioned. i think most women think i am supressing female rights, but i am not. please tell me your thoughts. thank you

Answer 1

honestly i think that's how it should be to a point. i think in life there are certainty things as a man you do and as a woman you do. but of course you compromise and discuss it first and not just assume cause she's a woman that she will do these things. and now a days alot of women want to work. so just remember we are multi-taskers and can have a job and maintain a home. besides letting her have even a part-time job won't hurt either of you, and when you do have children extra money will be great for trips with the kiddo's. BEST OF LUCK in your search and i hope this helps you

Answer 2

You want something that dates back to my grandmother (and by the way, I am a grandmother myself). Women want equal status with men. We want the same things you do. I had a job outside the home, raised 3 children, and always felt an equal partner to my husband. He adores me and we've had a happy marriage for over 35 years due to our respect and mutual love and caring for each other. What you want is NOT to have an equal partnership. You want a slave to your house and kids. If you keep looking, you may find an uninteresting woman who isn't too bright and maybe is willing to stay at home and cook and clean all day and raise the kids and have no other interests. Then, you can be a controlling husband. But, would you really enjoy her company? Wouldn't you rather have a woman who will cook with you, clean with you, have fun with you, and raise your children with you? A woman who will also bring in some money so you can take great vacations together as a family? Think about it. If you still want that 1940s version of a woman, try a third world country for wife shopping. Most American women are too intelligent for your boring idea.

Answer 3

Okay Lets start where do you live CA , Fl ? Becuase it sounds like they are women that are from the city .I live in AR and i was raised in MO and we are all old fashioned ..that was how i was raised ...but down here us women we have to work and make a living becuase the guys here want thier women to work ..well let me tell you if i had a guy that wanted me to stay home with the kids and clean and cook i would love it i could do things with the kids and volenteer and and help out at the school functions and stay on top of things as long as he had a great job and we could aford it and me have a car also and pay bills .maybe the women you have been with or talk to r city girls i am a counrty girl and i would love to have a farm and be a stay at home mom and play and cook and clean and ride my horses when i wanted than have to get up every day at 4:00 am and come to work and miss out on my kids school stuff and ...my oldest son ty he is 10 and he rodeos and i would love to be able to go to all of his actives but i miss some becuase i have to work .i think if you want a Old Fashioned women you need and country Girl not a city girl . We have country girls in AR .

Answer 4

You have to find a woman who is just as old fashioned as you are. Some women want that out of life - to be stay at home moms & housewives & are perfectly happy in that role. Other women don't like to be told that it is their job to cook, clean & take care of the children. Most of us these days are looking for a husband who will share in those duties.

Answer 5

ok so your saying she doesn't need to work but in the same sentence you say she can stay home and cook clean and take care of the kids. honey that IS work!!! i have been a homemaker for 17 years and i love it. i cook,clean do the shopping and make sure they are clean warm and fed when they leave in the a.m. and have a clean home and clean clothes to come home to and a good dinner. this all takes me longer than my husbands 9 hour day. i think the problem most women have doing this is when they hear their husbands saying their wife does not work. that attitude changes the mind of every woman who would like to stay home and make a nest. it is work. and alot of men who want a homemaker for a wife is also looking for a maid. i will not be a maid. your at home,you make a mess, you clean it. period. as a homemaker i am not here to clean up after you or wait on you 24/7. do you want to work 24/7? so if a homemaker is what you want. keep these things in mind and you will have no problem finding the girl of your dreams. there are alot of us nesters out there. if you are looking for someone to pick up after you and the kids call merry maids.

Answer 6

There are still alot of women out there that want this role. I am one of them and love my job I take great pride in knowing I am doing my part to make this family successfully and that my kids and my husband have my attention. Many women are not secure in there relationships and need to feel self reliant in case something happens or they want to do it all which spreads themselves to thin. Some women want to be the bread winner while the husband takes on the house thing. Everyone has a different life they want to live don't settle for what you know you don't want.

Answer 7

Oh my gosh, how old are you? Where do you live? lol. I think that any woman that would turn up her nose at that has not had to live like I do. I have to work in order to survive, and I work 50 to 60 hours a week. I would give anything to stay home and just be a "normal" woman. Believe me there are allot of women that I talk to on a daily bases where I live that would love that too. I live in Ca. by Sacramento and the cost of living is so outrageous that it takes 2 incomes to get by , unless you have an extreme income by yourself. There is someone out there for you just know that if you take your time you will find her.

Answer 8

alot of girls dont understand the women's right movement the whole point was for women to have the choice to work or stay home ,and now there is alot of pressure for women to work if you are a stay at home mom then your looked at like you just sponge off a man but if you have kids and work then you cant spend enough time with your family so the best i cant tell you is you have to find a girl that wants the same as you there is alot of pressure on girls that guys dont even know about

Answer 9

lol the cave is on the right

heres a little tale for you:

you and she have been married for 7 years, two children, ages 5 and 3. she has been home for 7 years doing the wife thing. now the mom thing. cleaning cooking laundry and dont forget the kids. you come home from work talking about how your buddies did this and that. while she has nothing to talk about except the kids. you silently think how boring she is. doesnt she do anything but talk to the kids. (many men think this) so now you need some excitement, (enter cute secretary).....get it now?

sorry, women need to be self reliant for themselves with a partner not a keeper.

Answer 10

There is somebody for everybody. Keep searching until you find that woman that wants to be a housewife, doesn't want to work and wants to be taken care of...I think there are women out there like that. You just need to check the kind of women your dating. For example, a woman with a life goals, great job and a degree probably isn't that type of woman. Just keep looking.