I think I'm okay with it. How did you deal with it ? Can you be friends with both your wife and her lover ?
2007-02-25 01:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I knew before we were married, 26 years, and we offten share the lovers. It works well for us.
2007-02-25 02:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem I see is that the two of you are married and your wife should know that the courts do not care if its 2 women or not it's still considered adultery. If she started this affair without your consent then she's cheating. If at anytime your not comfortable with it then tell her to stop. Then if she doesn't you know exactly where her heart lies and I would get a divorce. I do think even though your OK with it now over time it will get old and probably sooner then you think.
2007-02-25 10:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you will find about 70% of girls are attracted to other girls actually. Dont shoot me down because even if they deny it doesnt mean there isnt some truth there.
My wife is bisexual a little but I think its a nice fantasy but not something she should be actively doing if she is married to you - You are her husband so all her love should be for you
She needs to stop any other loving relationship otherwise it is grounds for divorce
2007-02-25 11:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only know of 1 couple that this happened to . the wifes girlfriend moved in to help with the rent and take care of thier child so she could go back to work and a couple of months later she threw him out and filed for divorce from him
2007-02-25 10:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YUP! It can be interesting if she acts on it but she still my same loving wife. And a very open minded one at that.
2007-02-25 10:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is open and honest with you. My wife is bi and she has told me when she goes out and I am ok with it .
2007-02-25 10:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by texbamsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres an old saying that hell hath no furylike a woman scorned, in this case, you are dealing with not one, but two of them at the same time if you mis-calculate your answers. in my case i just became the cream filling in an oreo and stuck both of them to me like glue, as long as i treat them equal, everything is dandy. its kind of illegal, but it works.
2007-02-25 10:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by robert r 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend whose husband was. She had one child and was pregnant with their second child. She caught him and his friend together, they were uprooting a dogwood tree and they actually tore it out by the roots, broke the tap root, to get to each other.
they now call this the Down/Low.
She divorced him, hours before she had her second child.
2007-02-25 10:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anne2 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently bisexual people can't be monogamous? Haha, your wife is cheating on you with a woman!
2007-02-25 10:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't find out until after the divorce. That might have saved the marrage.
2007-02-25 10:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋