2007-02-25 01:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by steve h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I don't think it's "cool" for anyone to sleep with lots of people. For what it's worth.
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2007-02-25 01:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because in the past women were the property of men. Therefore, she was to wait only for him, and he was to be experienced in all thing including sex.
Women were the holders of the virtures. They were to keep a man at arms length and keep their virtue until married. The ensured that a woman would not be used and become pregnant and then left. Back then a pregnant woman, out of wedlock, was shunned by her family and by society. Many times, a woman was put out on the street with her baby. It was very cruel.
So, that has spilled over into today's society. The thinking still that men should be experienced. It's all a lot of rubbish.
I'm of the thinking that both sexes should save their virginity. You can only give it away once...and it should be to someone you love and who loves you back.
2007-02-25 01:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Misty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That practice isn't 'cool' for anyone to do, it never was. Men and quite a few women have made excuses for the behavior for years, but just because this behavior is part of our culture doesn't make it acceptable. With all the STD's roaming around, more being discovered everyday, we need to think and gee, wouldn't it be nice to also be in love with the persons we share our beds with?
2007-02-25 01:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our culture was founded as an agrarian society that practiced animal husbandry and for a very long time believed in eugenics.
In animal husbandry, (breeding of animals), the idea is to produce for traits you think make a better animal. (That is how we wound up with Pekingese Dogs from wolves.)
Breed was based on the mother animal because that was the only parentage of which you could be certain. Male animals (like bulls) were allowed to walk the fields. This was because of two things. First, the males could be dangerous to have penned near the young and secondly, it didn't matter if someone else's cow got pregnant because you thought of your bull as the best anyway.
Now, imagine that for a long time this same idea permeated the breeding of humans. That is what "race" refers to, the "breed". The females were kept apart to ensure "better" eugenics (or desired traits) and males are allowed to walk around unconcerned because they were just making the world around themselves better through breeding.
It is an archaic idea and one that will linger like a strong fart for a very long time to come. Until the idea of breeding humans for desired traits goes away completely we will always consider promiscuity among women more deplorable then when males do it. That means, as long as racism (recognizing breeds of humans as having distinct traits worth preserving) exists; so to will such a sexist double-standard.
2007-02-25 01:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dane Spade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because when ur a women and u sleep with a lot of men around u can have a baby on ur hand which most can notice in no time and when ur a man no body would notice weather u made a baby or not that easily.
2007-02-25 01:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by elbin p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but you're right. It is a double standard and I hate it.
Still, given the age and world we live in, sleeping around a lot is socially irresponsible for anyone, regardless of gender.
2007-02-25 01:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by kim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a immature,disgusting,freakish,ungodly,sic... there is no longer one note that would want to describe a guy like that! He must have topics and be very mixed-up! he's not fortunate he merely seems for hardship and those type of females and if all adult males regarded for those varieties of females i'm positive they could discover one! it truly is no longer fortunate it truly is a perverted guy and someone who's unappreciative of ladies human beings and makes use of them as a device! no longer something that God created!
2016-10-17 08:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women dont like girls who sleep around, they make fun of them, yet they will open their legs to a guy who just pulled out of their friend... so maybe this perpetuates the problem?
2007-02-25 01:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by XX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--I think it has to do with the false idea that man is supreme and he should dominate! For women to assume the forward role is out of sync. with what a false society has in mind.
--Of course who ever takes the initiative is just fornicating & being immoral.
2007-02-25 01:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by THA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical double standard that if a woman sleep around she's a tramp but a guy is a stud.
2007-02-25 01:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by CctbOh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋