Help me, im scared!?

Question

i had sex with my ex boyfriend 5 days ago. we used a condom and baby oil as lubricant and he came in me. then today i went online and checked about lubricants and found out that baby oil and condoms should not be used together. im scared that i might be pregnant. last period i had was on the 14th fed. please help...

Answer 1

The level that you seem to be freaked out about this suggests to me that you are still not ready for a sexual relationship.

If you are not educated about the very basics (such as the fact that petroleum-based lubricants break down latex) and are not using a more reliable back-up contraception, then I suggest hitting your local health department and carefully reading any pamphlets and other information you can get your hands on.

You and your boyfriend must also have a grown-up discussion about contraception, failure rates, etc.

You also should talk about how you will support and care for a new life in the event that a contraceptive failure should occur. (And they occur all the time.)

Its a sad, but fairly sure bet that he'll disappear shortly after you should ever announce you are carrying his child.

Answer 2

I've never heard that babyoil and condoms shouldnt be used together but if your partner wore a condom, then I wouldnt worry because condoms contain spermicide that reduce the chances of pregnancy even if a condom breaks. I wouldnt worry about being pregnant but I will say that you shouldnt use baby oil as a lubricant. It contains ingredients and fragrances that could give you a vaginal infection. Just substitute with vaseline or use lubricated condoms in the future.

Answer 3

It looks like you have a while before your next period so I suggest you wait to cross that bridge once you get there. Stressing about it now isn't going to help with your next period, you might come on late or early. Just wait till you are closer to your next period and take a hpt or call your doctor. Good luck.

Answer 4

You should be using another form of birth control for backup. Like a diaphram or the birth control pill. Condoms are not the safest thing to use. I wouldnt worry about it too much now, what is done is done. If it didnt break then you should be fine. Dont stress. From now on, take better precautions and you dont have to worry as much. Good luck.

Answer 5

You are probably fine.....just don't use it again. Try not to freak out until it is time for your next menstrual cycle. Seriously....I'm 98% you are just fine....the reason it isn't recommended is because it could cause the condom to break. If it had broken...you'd have noticed.

You're fine!

Answer 6

Stuff like this happens. it is existence, in basic terms not existence superb now. pay interest to the coolest issues now. pass that bridge once you get there. attempt calming your self down by skill of rubbing under your collarbone with 2 arms. desire this helped! :D

Answer 7

It is too early to be worried, wait until you miss your period first, then take a pregnancy test

Answer 8

ok so here's the deal wait for when your next periods about to come and see is you miss it. if you do thenjust get a home pregnancy test and try it if you don't miss it then i wouldn't worry anymore.

Answer 9

maybe you should take a pregnancy test and see your results. if pregnant, tell him, and then have him help you take care of the baby. if he refuses, then tell him not to talk to you or try to see/visit you or the baby. (unless he's willing to help.)

Answer 10

go see a doctor, if you dont want to do that dont u have a hospital question and answer line in your community, or better yet go talk to your mother