Tell me about your wife!?

Question

I'm determined to find a life partner within a year...to begin with, I'd like to conduct a survey. For those of you who are happily married men, can you please answer the following questions?

1. Where/how did you meet your wife?
2. What was the determining factor that you chose her as wife?
3. How long did it take to get married after meeting her for the first time?
4. How long did you wait to have sex with her after the first date?
5. Tell me your secret tips to maitain great relationship/marriage.

Thanks so much -- I look forward to hearing from you!

For those of you who are happily married men, can you please answer the following questions?

1. Where/how did you meet your wife?
2. What was the determining factor that you chose her as wife?
3. How long did it take to get married after meeting her for the first time?
4. How long did you wait to have sex with her after the first date?
5. Tell me your secret tips to maitain great relationship/marriage.

Thanks so much -- I look forward to hearing from you! P.S. I don't need lectures...please just answer the questions if you are happied married men...thanks!

Answer 1

1 we worked together as volunters at the local free clinic [ also know as the VD Clinic]
2 just something about her that drew me in , the sparkle in her eyes , her smile , and to some degree the sweet smell of her perfume my have seduced me .
3 3 an a 1/2 yrs
4the first date , she invited me in and we made love and spent the nite together
5 accepting who we have become after all these years . and if you need tips for the bedroom be open to trying new things and accepting what your partner likes

best of luck to you

Answer 2

There's a movie with a line in it about a professional woman on a street corner with a cardboard sign: "I'm 36 and I would like a baby now."

Setting a time frame, no offense, is selfish and a bit arrogant. The guy out there you find has no idea about or respect for such an arbitrary decision. And he shouldn't respect it, either. You might mean well but it's just plain bossy. What - Her Highness the Queen has decided it is now time to fall in love and get married, so everyone better step and fetch it? That's how it comes across.

Second, knowing when and where other people found a mate doesn't help - it happens everywhere. Think about it - you have either been very closed off to guys (perhaps, 'I am very busy advancing my career') and not seen some keepers, or you've been giving off some other vibe that keeps them away. You already know this about you. Otherwise, why would you now decide you need to change that atttiude and find a guy? But it can happen anywhere, anytime.

Third, you need to work on yourself. Don't worry about a dream checklist of what you want in a partner - even in your top 10 you'll have to throw out 3 or 4. Why? Because we are all imperfect. Including you. Instead, work on being less of a control freak, more honest, more willing to compromise, more giving, more thoughful of others, and less demanding and entitled. Being - not acting - that way will make you more approachable. I mean, why do you think guys don't come up to you? Because you give off a vibe and you probably look like you have a cat turd taped under your nose.

Perhaps volunteer work is for you. Read books on tape for the blind. Help out in a soup kitchen. Riase a guide dog puppy. Do something for someone else where you get nothing in return. It will make you more attractive on the inside, where it counts - then you'll have more guys who fit your list interested in you.

Answer 3

1,, lol i was drag raceing came around a cruvem she was walking acroos the road, almost ran her over, i stop to tell her she cost me the race,.. 2,,,.lol, she was up front, an said what she think 3,,,1 mouth,,,4 lol,, wlil about a week,5,, first love her with all my heart, 2th trust, 3s we never go to bed mad at each other, we alway talk it out be for sleep,,,4 she does the cooking , an i dont was to ear my own cooking,lol,,, 5 she know when i telling a lie,,,6 she know all my hideing places,lol,, an 7 share your life 50..50 with your mate,, , for it take both to make it work by the way we been together , 33 almost 34 year, with 6 liveing kids an one dead

Answer 4

Having a time frame is a bad plan. I married my wife within a year and things are ugly and we are divorcing after a bitter three years. Don't allow yourself to make hasty decisions especially when those decisions will live with you forever, literally. Best of luck.

Answer 5

I think you should do this: Must write a list of what you want in your husband and what you can't stand . Stick to that list and you will find exactly what you want. Its not what everyone else had or gone through or felt...its you and very personal.

Read the book called "The rules"...its an awesome book for ladies. Sure fire way to get you the husband YOU want.

Answer 6

you need not have to have statistics of your question rather have a good carring and understanding heart for your wife to live a happy married life