I know he love me and will never cheat on me. But I feel that I will never be able to satisfy him in bed like they could, I mean they were professionals. I think about this every time we are together in bed. Can some one tell me what it is like sleeping with a prostitute compared to a long term girl friend?
2007-02-25 00:25:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its not my field but u may want to get him check for stds, as prostitues are riddled with them.
2007-02-25 00:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Robo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The key phrase is " Use too " ,,,, So if he's a long term boyfriend as you say then I don't think there's anything for you to worry about ,,,, If you don't or haven't satisfied him then he wouldn't have been around long enough to become this long term boyfriend ,,,, With this constantly on your mind you just might be ruining what you have with him right now ,,,, Stop worrying about it until he complains ,,,, If he starts complaining then that's the time to start worrying and ask him what he'd like you to do to make it better ,,,, It appears that you've forgotten that sex isn't the only part of a relationship ,,,, There are more reason than just sex for a guy to remain with you ,,,, Ever give it a thought that he just might love you ??? You are swinging either before or after the bell so to speak ,,,,Wait for the bell to ring and deal with it then ,,,,
2007-02-25 01:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not compare at all.
When i was lot term single (15 years) trying to get Myself together after a messy split and movement worries etc, I did do the professional scene and apart from the kick and the pleasure for a short time, nothing compares with the love, affection, companionship and trust between two people.
My current wife knows I have been with others and paid in some cases, I made sure I got a clean bill of health before we slept together. As He has already told you the above, then he is being honest and open with you which is a good step.
As for trying to compete with them, don't forget most professionals want it over with as quickly as possible, so make him last. Ask him what he used to like and which positions etc he likes. If you don't know them, try them, maybe you already know more than them.
Love him for what he is now, not what he was.
2007-02-25 02:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kevan M 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Trust me they can never compare to a long term girl friend. Prostitutes are in it for the money not the love or the affection. Only a long time girl/boy friend is good for the satifaction and the true love a prostitute can never give love just STDS or HIVS!
2007-02-25 00:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm female and haven't slept with a prostitute so I can't answer that. Sex always better with someone you love and trust.
I'm sure your boyfriend is much more satisfied being able to spend a lifetime with you than paying for it and having to leave straight after.
Just because prostitutes have sex more than once a night and get paid for it doesn't make them experts.
2007-02-25 07:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be worried about it - men know that prostitutes are only doing it for the money and therefore put on a show. In fact, some men have told me that they know that most prostitutes they've been with are bored senseless and just want to get it over with and on to the next client. So I wouldn't worry about your performance in bed with your boyfriend - he is probably delighted that you're actualy enjoying it and really participating, instead of lying back and thinking of his wallet!
Your fears are groundless ... it's in the past. Enjoy now.
2007-02-25 01:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to remember that prostitutes do not get emotionally involved with clients. It's a means to an end for them. In this case making money. They will never have shown your boyfriend the love and respect that you show him. Nor will he have shown them the love and respect that I'm sure he has for you. That's why he told you his secret past. You're the woman he's with, you're the woman he wants. Concentrate on that and you'll both be fine.
Best wishes, J
2007-02-25 00:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by sirjulian 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's a long term boyfriend and you know he loves you and would never cheat on you, you must be getting something right. He's trusted you with the information. Forget the past, stop worrying about it.
Just as a thought, they may have been 'professionals' but that doesn't necessarily mean they were good at it. Have you considered that you may be giving him something better? Love, maybe.
2007-02-25 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Florence-Anna 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well sound to me like this guy couldn't get girls the regular way, which takes effort and time. Prostitutes are actresses, playing a part and having sex for the money only. Sounds to me, like your guy wanted sex with no strings.
2007-02-25 00:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your bf is the one that needs to be good in bed not you! Im a guy and trust me aint nothing special about a prostitute!! all they do is put the rubber on and lay down! I mean if you look good then you aint got nothing to worry about..but if you really want to impress him ...Swallow or let him do you in the back but its up to you and how comfortable you with that but if you decide to do it dont start doing it all the time do it on special occasions you know what I meen
2007-02-25 00:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by Enrique L 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no basic difference between both kind of women.Given a chance both can fill into others roles.Only difference is that prostitutes tell their price on front.
2007-02-25 08:55:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋