My best friend used to be a great friend.
After she was chosen to be a prefect,she was extremely happy.
I,too,felt happy for her.
Soon,i found out that she was stayiing back with one of my friends,studying and playing with her.
i had always did that with her.play and all.
She had lied to me.(anyway,i forgot to tell you that the other friend she was always playing with is also a prefect)
i cannot believe that my best friend lied to me.she was never like that b4.
i did not do anything for any reason for her to hate me.
Why is she torturing me?She is making me feel miserable.
She was a great friend. I cannot bear 4 me not 2 have her as my best friend.
I shared all my secrects with her. And i suspect she told all my secrects to that other friend.
I need your comments or answers
2007-02-25 00:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jazzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Anyway,when did i say that i was sleepin with her boyfriend?
absurd......
2007-02-25 00:53:07 · update #1
A true or best friend is a friend when they know all of your faults and short comings and still want to be your friend anyway ,,,, As for this supposed best friend that you have or had ,,,, Were I you I'd think about re-evaluating your friendship and ask yourself just how much of a best friend she is or ever really was ,,,, I think that if she ever was a true friend to you then she wouldn't dream of doing what shes doing now ,,, All you can do is to continue being yourself ,,,, If this girl has had a change of heart about you then so be it ,,,,There's nothing you can do about that ,,,, I wouldn't let her or anyone else know who adversely this situation has effected you though ,,,, It's no one Else's business ,,,, Just continue being yourself and at your best around her or them ,,,, You have no control as to how she feels about you ,,,, And no ,,,, you didn't say anything about sleeping with her boyfriend as someone suggested but if that's a rumor going around then that might be a reason for her change of heart ,,,, Personally I don't think you are involved with him because you are on this forum asking this question ,,,, Like I said ,,,, all you can do is to just continue being yourself ,,,, I wouldn't consider changing myself just to have anyone as a friend ,,,, People will either like you or they won't ,,,, You have no control over it one way or the other ,,,,,,
2007-02-25 02:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been betrayed, drawn into the confidence of another, just so that they could extract information from you and use it against you|
That has happened to me so many times now, that when it does happen, it doesn't even phase me anymore|
That is the type of evil that we are now dealing with in this day and age - a total cold blooded cynical attitude that is expert at pretending that they care and are genuine|
But don't fear that, despite how evil it is|
It is only a test - strong test yes - but one which will teach you wisdom|
You will soon learn how to deal with such people, as they are more common now than most people realize|
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2007-02-25 00:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like you need to talk to her. you need to have a heart o heart and figure out what is really goin gon. People make new friends all the time. And sometimes it takes a toll on other friendships. remember, you're still young and people are growing up and changing. these things happen. but if your friend is that important to you, then you should be asking her what you're asking us. good luck.
2007-02-25 01:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by dna_lih 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no clue what a prefect is.
Find newer friends. You are allowed to have more than one. Trust me....
Maybe she is not such a good friend after all and a user.
2007-02-25 00:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im also in that situation ryt now...and actually that's the same story...according to my friend, just dont get affected because you'll get close or have truce by some tym...just talk to other friends to make you happy or cheer up...i hope you get right with your friend...
2007-02-25 00:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by --mad4u-- 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stop sleeping with her boyfriend
2007-02-25 00:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋