me and my boyfriend havent had sex but we did rub without clothes on. my period came a few days early and was heavy at first, like normaly, for about two days and then it just dissapeared. it came back once or twice, once heavily and the rest are just spots. is this a regular period or spotting? i heard spotting is supposed to be light. also i've head frequent head aches that last about 10 minutes in the morning. Please help me, i am so scared.
2007-02-25 00:17:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
oh honey, you are not pregnant...stop fussing...yer just having an irregular period...that happens, especially if you are stressing yourself out...if you DO have sex, please have your man wear a condom
2007-02-25 00:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by j c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please dont worry. You cant actually be pregnant unless semen was inserted inside you and "rubbing" cant result in pregnancy. I can understand your concern though. I recently had spotting after losing my virginity and I went through the pregnancy scare that you're going through now so I asked my doctor who told me that the spotting results from the change in a woman's hormones. You're also stressing about being pregnant so this will also make your period irregular and cause the spotting you're experiencing. Just try to relax and forget the thought of being pregnant but if you absolutely need assurance, go buy a "First Response" pregnancy test. You'll see you had no reason to be worrying in the first place :-)
And remember, if you and your boyfriend are planning on eventually having sex, ALWAYS use a condom.
2007-02-25 08:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably not pregnant but to be sure maybe you should go to the doctors. A check up doesnt hurt anyone, maybe you could also get a prescription for the pill if you do not want to have children just yet. The more you worry yourself about it the longer your periods will take to regulate.
2007-02-25 08:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by lillypud 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you say *rub* what do you mean he can still ejaculate pre entry into you so try to calm down and think how far you went, the rest of the symptoms seem like stress but get a pregnancy test anyway to be on the safe side and trust someone enough that you can talk to and get support from. good luck!!!
2007-02-25 08:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you are not pregnant, but it could happen. If you are going to go further be sure to have protection.
If you can delay having sex with him until marriage, you won't have the stress and anxiety associated with premarital sex, and possibly an unplanned pregnancy.
2007-02-25 08:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did not ejaculate, you are not pregnant. If he did, it would have had to been very close to your vaginal opening in order for there to be even a minute chance that you could be pregnant. I seriously doubt that you are, but if you want to be sure, you could buy a test. You will be fine!
2007-02-25 08:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by lil momma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your that scared of the consequences (pregnancy), wait until you are emotionally mature enough to deal with it before committing to a relationship.
2007-02-25 08:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not pregnant, but irregular periods at your age are common...Stress and weight changes can also affect your period
2007-02-25 08:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by KP 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take a pregnancy test. as for the period, i can't help you on that. go to your doctor and ask about your period trouble.
2007-02-25 08:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by pinkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with JC your just freaked out but when u do have sex wear a condom
2007-02-25 08:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋