2007-02-25 00:03:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's the ulitmate in degeneration of relationships, -when sex is used, the same ways dogs do in the front lawn.
For all the attributes that describe "immaturity", like self-indulgence, selfishness, taking (not giving), lack-of-responsibilty, and short-term fun, - this FWB is the ultimate in non-maturity.
2007-02-25 00:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I was divorced, I had two (2) friend with benefits. NO! Not at the same time or back to back or anything sick like that! By the way, they are still my friends and not only understand but have no problem with our friendship now being Friends without Benefits.
The proper definition is a woman who has a good male friend who is asked if they would feel comfortable being FWB. They both respect the others right to be with someone they are interested in.
In my case, my plate was full. I was a full-time student (college was 50 min. one way) while carrying a B average, raising a toddler alone and working. I didn't have the time or energy to "date" but i still had an "itch that needed scratching".
My life has proved to me that I stay healthier if my body's natural urges are satisfied. In fact, during my chemo, my blood levels improved after sex so much I was able to have my treatments after all. This happened several times during my treatments!
Oh and by the way, that was the other time I had a FWB. Does it sound like a lame excuse? I had too much going on in my life to "date".
2007-02-25 09:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by maj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's when you an a person have a agreement that y'all are just Friend but you will have sex with each other without being in a real relationship. When it come to that you have to think about u. Are u a person That fall in love fast? If so than this is not for u. You could get your feeling hurt. If you are a person that dose not really have feelings than you can do it but you will have to find someone just like that for it to work. It would be best if you just save your self for that rigth person. If you think about ityou are Friends with benefits that mean that he/she can mess with any body they want and its to much S*** going around. You don't want to get deal a hand that you can't play with.
2007-02-25 08:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends that occassionally have sex. It's okay as long as both people involved understand that it's a friends with benefits situation. Unfortunately sometimes a boy will see a relationship as fwb and the girl will believe that is a real relationship. Or vice versa, either way someone ends up hurt and the other annoyed.
2007-02-25 08:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Feelings and health issues always get in the way. Tread very carefully. At the very least, admit that this IS a kind of relationship, and handle the other person with honesty and respect. That means being open about having sex with other people, too.
2007-02-25 08:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by pennyrtyler 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
a mutual consenting friend with whom you both decide to have sex.
No romantic love involved, no commitments, no strings attaches (unless you're into bondage). Is it OK? It's legal in most states, and morally wrong if you believe it is. Depends on what stage of your life you're in. Could be very satisfying or leave you feeling totally empty.
2007-02-25 08:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is the term used for two people who are sleeping together without romantic ties. Is it okay? Definitely, but maybe not when you're married.
2007-02-25 08:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Friends with benefits, or FWB, is a friend who you casually hook up with sexually. it could be anything from making out, to intercourse on the physical level, but both parties agree to keep the possessive emotional side out of the equation and to be no more than friends.
it's ok as long as both people are emotionally mature enough to handle it.
2007-02-25 08:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Friends with Benifits is when you are friends with a person of the opposite sex and you kiss and make out and hold hand and act like you are going out phisiclly but with out the emotinal stuff and your not officially going out.It can be good as long as your not being used .
2007-02-25 08:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell yes it O K mine is still asleep in my bed now. I am making us breakfast and just taking a quick break as the eggs cook and playing on here.The sex was awesome. After breakfast we Willl shower together and do it again.Then her a$$ wil go home . Very uncomplicated but very nice.Only way to go.
2007-02-25 08:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by irish dude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋