My ex bf finally decided to move out. Ive been begging him to do so. But when he messaged me about moving out i felt devastated. But i pretended to be strong. As i was packing his stuff (his working at the moment so im helping him with it) i came across his letters for me, i then started crying... i stopped after awhile, then when folding his clothes i smelled him on it.... tears flowing again. is it that hard to move on? why am i such a wreck? 3 yrs together... then found out he's two timing me with another girl. i should be glad he's moving on and letting me have my life but why do i still cry?
2007-02-23 23:42:06 · 8 answers · asked by ZaZa b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you will cry when your in pain and you will cry if your very happy you cry because of this emotion ---LOVE
three years of relationship is full of emotion, there is ups and down like a rollercoaster but i think you have a very wonderful relationship with your bf other than his two timing you with other girl a good loving relationship is not easy to forget and being alone at nights will really bites on you
seperating from your bf has a big advantage to your self because you can measure your true feeling on him and i hope when
he comes back he is a better man
goodluck!!
2007-02-24 00:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u still miss him how nice he was to u and stuff, but if u r still crying, then maybe u should talk to a counselor or maybe just carry on. Dont think about him anymore, and get a new boy just like him. If tht doesnt help but u could do this. Before i start, i did this before and it helped. When u see them hang out, try to at least break them up. if tht doesnt help, then when he is alone, talk to him and ask him y he broke up with u and y he likes the other girl better. I hoped i helped!
2007-02-24 08:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by PinkIdiotGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you have asked him to nove out right.
Did you find out he was two timing you before aor after you asked him to leave?
If you knew he was two timing when you asked him to leave then you did the right thing, but if you asked him to leave and you didn't know he was two timing then, you might have caused him to do it.
You are going to miss him and it will hurt for a few days,
But are going to have to forget hima nd move on.
You need to move on with your life and find someone who is going to be true to and and who you can be true too.
Being alone sucks but there is somone out there that will love you for all of your faults and who will be there for you and you need to be there for them.
But if you are truly over this guy then let him go.
2007-02-24 08:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by leigh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love , , i hope you dont take me wrong in saying love, but here the deal, love hurt, i dont care if you love him for a mouth a year, ar a life time, love is very painfull,,,,an no matture what he did you still going to love him, you may not love what he did, which was wrong, ,, an you got to , be strong, an hope, that you an him , can repair the damage,,,,, i do hope an pray ,both of you can talk it out
2007-02-24 07:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss the old him but theres only going to be the new him so get use to it and cry it out it helps
2007-02-24 07:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a long time, of course you'll cry. theres nothing wrong with that, let it out, then shake it off, get out there & find your true love
2007-02-24 08:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by bluesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious!!!!!You still love him but you should forget him.Find someone else.You mustn't cry for him.He's a bustard.
2007-02-24 07:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by ecates3wear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him, but he doesnt love u. leave him
2007-02-24 10:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by dellstar_mofas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋