i'm a lebanese 15-years-old guy. i'm sure i'm homosexual. but i'm totally into guys and attracted towards them like any heterosexual guy would do towards women : the physical, the size, ... but the problem is between all the guys i like, there's probably no single one who might be gay ; but if someone were, and let's suppose that i knew it, there's a minimal chance that he would even look at me (i'm not that viril ; i'm more like baby-face ; but surely i'm not feminin). and between who i'm quite sure they're gay, i could never find anyone that would attract me...
so help please ! i'm dying everyday thinking about that, and i just can't let it go of my mind... and thanks infinitly for all of you who would answer me!
2007-02-23 23:25:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dude....just when you least expect it..the most nice looking and gay guy will pass right in front of you. He'll glace your way twice...then a third. Follow him....
2007-02-23 23:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being gay at your age can be an awkward experience -- I know it was awkward for me at 15, and the environment I was in at the time was not quite as intolerant as the one you're in, but pretty close.
The only advice I can give you is to have patience and wait. I know your feelings are very strong right now, and it is very difficult to be patient when no one seems to understand you. However, if you can hang in there a few more years, you might be able to put yourself into a situation where you will be in a more tolerant environment and might be able to meet people who are openly gay and be open about it yourself. Sometimes this happens when you are not expecting it, but either way it requires some patience.
There may be others here who can give specific advice related to being gay in Lebanon, as I'm not very familiar with the conditions there as it relates to gays. However, you might find the following website informative: http://www.gaymiddleeast.com/country/lebanon
Hope this helps you.
Good luck!
2007-02-24 00:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by DavidGC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless the media have totally blown things out of proportion, and we know they never do that, you need to move! Which is scary!
See if you can talk your family into sending you to school in France for a year or two. One step at a time. Personal safety has to be a priority.
2007-02-24 00:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude at your age your going to have it somewhat rough...don't worry when you get a bit older I'm more then sure your going to hit the clubs and get hit on left and right at the moment its kinda hard to find someone your age but don't waste your time look love happens on its own don't rush it, it will happen trust me, make sure not to fall in love right off the back.....
2007-02-24 00:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋