If after your other miscarriages doctors never felt the need to explore the reasons for them, your chances of miscarriage this time around are actually really low! I had 2 before my current pregnancy which is well out of the first trimester aready. I figured 2 before increased my odds for a third, but in fact it decreased them. Apparently 1 or 2 miscarriages is so common they don't even assume a medical reason for them. If you have another then they will explore medical causes - but even if that happens remember that then they'll figure out the problem and you'll be able to get assistance with your next pregnancy. You should ask them to do an ultrasound next week to reassure yourself; if they can hear a heartbeat you definitely can rest a little easier! good luck - i know how scary it is.
2007-02-23 23:01:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I understand what you are going through, I had 2 miscarriages myself, in the first 3 months. I have a lovely daughter from 8 yr now. It is nature my love, you dont realy know, for me there was no medical explanation. For the first 3 months it is always to wait if the baby is developing allright. It is very vulnarable then. After the miscarriages I remember I was a bit scary to tell people I was pregnant, cause I was affraid if it was not allright. For myself I just was relaxed and exepted pregnancy for myself when I was 5 months pregnant.
I had contact with a doctor and had regular appointments to follow the development of my baby.
I was over 30 so then they take more procaution anyway.
If you are younger the medical world thinks you have time to try if it doesnt succeed.
So no real explanation is to be given, but for you I hope it will work out now. And if you are worried, dont hesitate to visit your doctor! Whish you well and have faith in a good ending.
Try to enjoy pregnancy, cause that is what I have missed, cause of my fear........but I understand what you must feel!
Good luck!
2007-02-23 23:14:47
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answered by Christel P 1
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It depends what your previous ones were caused by. My wife had three miscarriages and my daughter has had one. Perhaps it runs in the family but, nevertheless we had two wonderful, healthy children as did my daughter. I see miscarriages as natures way of telling you there's something wrong either with you or the foetus and it's making your body rejects the 'danger' if you like. Consult your doctor and explain your misgivings but, in the meantime take precautions not to damage it. If you smoke STOP NOW, do not drink alcohol or take any drugs unless prescribed. Eat a healthy diet, lots of fruit and fresh vegetables, especially those high in iron, the green ones like spinach and green cabbage, peas etc. Take moderate exercise but do not overdo it. Avoid any activity that involves lifting. Take plenty of rest. preferably lying down with your feet raised on a cushion. Avoid stressful situations. Drink plenty of liquids, milk and water based. If possible locally attend pregnancy groups which demonstrate exercise and relaxation patterns. Hopefully you will be OK this time. Good Luck and God bless you but remember if, ultimately, you do suffer another miscarriage, and I hope to God you don't, just remember about Nature's selection process. There will be a good reason for it so don't go blaming yourself if it happens.
2007-02-23 23:06:50
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answered by quatt47 7
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basically by way of fact she have been given pregnant so quickly does no longer mean she isn't grieving, it may desire to be her way of accepting it much less perplexing. human beings grieve in distinctive procedures and that i'm specific that isn't any longer a fashion of changing the infant as that's impossible, she would be ready to keep in mind that terrible day for something of her existence whether she has yet another infant or no longer. I had a miscarriage, fortuitously I wasn't 7 months long previous besides the incontrovertible fact that that is nevertheless no longer a superb journey, I additionally became pregnant at as quickly as, basically 6 weeks later and that i stumbled on that helped. i think of of the infant I lost while it is composed of the month I lost the infant and additionally the month it could have been born and at christmas time besides the incontrovertible fact that it would not make me very unhappy anymore, and that does no longer mean i'm no longer stricken the two. the main suitable factor you're able to do is help your chum and be there for her if she desires you, threat is she would be ready to be very scared and emotional. each physique could have their very own opinion in her concern yet that isn't any longer what counts, it is not correct what everybody else thinks, that is her selection, her existence and her who has to go through the loss she has basically experienced. deliver her my maximum suitable desires, i will shop my arms crossed for a healthful finished time era being pregnant this time.
2016-09-29 13:30:51
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answered by ? 4
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Mu cousin had two misscarriages because she was lacing something....I believe she had to take a pill and carried through the third time. He was just born..2 month early...but he's a strong little guy 3 lbs 4.5 oz and 16 inches long.
Ask your docotor...always ask your docotor. Gooduck!
2007-02-23 23:14:42
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answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7
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Its very hard to say. Depending on why you miscarried last time. It could be something that you need sorted, or the other 2 could of been 1 off problems (sorry if that sounded bad). Make sure you follow doctors orders. Their is every chance you could be ok. Good Luck
2007-02-24 09:25:53
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answered by Littleblonde-kacey is here 6
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there really is no way of telling how many misscarriages you will have just hope for the best this time i will keep u in my prayers
2007-02-24 00:42:53
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answered by Anonymous
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It's common for you to have it again, not to scare you, but just relax and make sure you monitor the baby as much as you can(go to the Dr.) and if you have any blood or anything scares you please consult a Dr. It's also a possibility tht this baby will hold on, unlike the others. Goodluck !
2007-02-24 01:35:55
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answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5
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i don't know the odds but i do have a friend who has miscarried twice and now she has twins. go figure, they say third times a charm or charms'. i hope you can get through whatever the outcome is. it will be tough no matter the case may be.
2007-02-23 23:05:03
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answered by james 4
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it really depends on what made you miscarry before if there was no medical reason behind it then i would say you are at no more risk than someone who has never miscarried, good luck
2007-02-23 23:52:45
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answered by tracy w 3
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