I have three children under four. I was married to there dad. But he was verbably abusive and threw us out. after many months he now sees the kids. But what i want to know is will there be a man out there who will respect and love me even though i have chldren
2007-02-23 22:49:57 · 20 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, you can find love again. But it's difficult with three kids. Main problem is that you don't hang out where there's available men. A good place would be a social group for parents without partners or similar.
2007-02-23 22:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You will find love again but I would suggest you pray that God will find you the right person. Get the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and prepare yourself for the new man. God will only bring him when you are healed from all the bruises in your life. Seek Godly counsell and ask GOd to heal you. Get rid of the baggage and become confident again. In the meantime God says he will be your husband Read Isaiah 54. ASk him for what you need and he will provide it. Trust him and the word also says "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart!" Everything comes at the right time and in the right season.
2007-02-23 22:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What happened to the father(s)? What do you mean "respect" you? You may need to work on your own relationship skills if the guys are not around.
What about the love you feel when you all wake up in the same bed on a Sunday morning and talk and giggle with the kids?
2007-02-23 22:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is, you just have to wait it will take time.
I have 4 kids between 9-16 and I have found somonw who loves my kids and my kids love him.
My boys father was abusive and spends most of his time in jail.
My daughter dad and I have been friends for over 20 yrs.
Actually he is going to be the best man in our weddingon 24th of March
If you find someone let him know upfront you have children give him the chance too meet them and let them meet him, because they have feelings too that you have to consider.]
If you find someone if they truly care avout you then they will love and care about your children. Even if he has children of his own it will work out.
Just follow your heart and whatever you do consider your kids feelings also.
Good Luck
2007-02-24 00:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by leigh c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
of course there are. i can tell you i respect you already. my only advice is to first and foremost make sure that when you meet a new guy that your kids come first not him. if he truly loves you he should understand this and encourage it. your kids are your blood any real man will respect and cherish the way you hold your children in high regard. if you put your focus on your children instead of finding mister right than he will find you.
2007-02-23 22:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by big_john_719 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You never know. You might find the perfect guy for you and your 3 children that will love, help and respect you. You might not find that person right away. But u do have a chance of getting one. For now try to take care of yourself, and your kids,and help you help your self. Okay, well, I hope I helped.
2007-02-23 22:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First! God is Love! Yes you will find a father and a Lover all in one. you must understand that when you have children that is a flag for some men not all! you to have respect one self first! what you think, is what will come to you. so think good things about yourself and your children.... Know that god is love!!!! You have 3 wonderful children who love their mother. put you and your children first and tell them that you love them!!! always let them know that god love them also!! Respect is what is giving and what is showing!! I hope that help some... God is love!!
2007-02-23 23:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by fatulovered 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when u treat ur childern good u will find the man who loves u aas members tell love is in air u can smell it in any time go for life and be hopeful u may tell us in next week u have met the true person
2007-02-23 23:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can! My uncle had 4 kids and found love. But I wish the best of luck to you and your family and remember everyone can find love!
2007-02-24 07:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kids to me is no back step if I found some girl with kids I would love them as my own even thou I do not have any & singal to :(
2007-02-25 12:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋