What do guys do in the locker room? At sleep overs? How do they act around their crush? How much semen comes out with wet dreams? How do they treat their friends? How do they show they care about their friends, without seeming "gay"? Do they talk on the phone? How often do they play truth or dare? How often do they have sleep overs?
2007-02-23 21:24:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How old are you? I'm just curious . . . it's going to make a world of difference in terms of how guys act.
In my experience, and generally, males are socialized to be "out there" in a way that females are not. Women operate more on politeness and mutual understanding between one another; men are more likely to come from a hierarchal perspective, with lots of teasing and insulting that is not meant to be hurtful (the way it would be seen between women), power struggles at times, and a certain emotional distance from others. That's not to say they can't be kind, quiet, and close, but they are taught to be otherwise.
Most teen guys don't have sleepovers, talk on the phone for long periods of time, or play truth or dare. Those are seen as more girlish activities. In the locker room, they mostly do what anyone does in the locker room- change and shower. There might be a little banter, some towel-snapping, but nothing much, you know? As for how they act around their crushes, it's all very individual. Some guys are born ladies' men and have no problem flirting and asking out; others are shy and take longer. Of course, at the youngest ages, boys are more likely to be antagonistic to their crushes than sweet and romantic. Guys treat their friends like anyone treats friends- they hang out, talk to one another, etc., etc.. Like I said before, they tend to act less emotional and less close with one another, particularly with reinforcing behavior that criticizes guys who act otherwise with insults like 'sissy' or 'gay'.
You might like to read up on some of these books to get better insight onto young males, their thoughts, behaviors, feelings, etc.:
"Growing Up Male: The Psychology of Masculinity" by B. Mark Schoenberg
"Teenage Boys: Surviving and Enjoying These Extraordinary Years" by Bill Beausay
"The Teenage Guy's Survival Guide: The Real Deal on Girls, Growing Up and Other Guy Stuff" by Jeremy Daldry
Hope that helps, and good luck!
2007-02-24 10:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't really have sleep overs. If you are a girl, you won't be able to produce semen, even with a sex change. Men are as different from each other as women are.
2007-02-23 23:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl, you should not get a sex change unless you believe yourself to be a boy and in that case you would already be well aware of the answers to a large number of your own questions.
You are just curious, you would not be satisfied with gender reassignment as long as you think of yourself as a girl.
2007-02-23 23:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Philippa 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i am the worse person to ask about these sorts of things but i can give you a few web site that might help you become the boy you want to be
http://www.ftmi.org/
http://www.thetransitionalmale.com/
http://www.ftmguide.org/
they all have links and may help you find the answers you are asking your self
2007-02-23 23:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Zara3 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ohhh honey !! you don't want to be a man, you gotta pee standing up and it goes everywere ew. just watch patton.. thats what guys are like haha.
2007-02-24 01:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me..it's not all that it's cracked up to be. That's why I spend so much time trying to be a woman.
2007-02-24 07:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by cd_aimee 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋