In my mid-twenties. No friends. No girlfriend. Just school is all I have. I look so young for my age that people think I'm in high school.
I give up.
I try and talk to people, but few of them become my friends. And the ones that I like I am jealous of.
I think my life is doomed.
2007-02-23 21:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound so sad, and I feel bad for you! I am sure you are a great person with a lot of wonderful qualities! You have things going for you, your school is extremely important! Don't worry about having a girlfriend right now, that will happen! Usually when you least expect it! And as for friends, go to some groups or clubs and meet people, try sports, etc.! Don't be jealous, be happy with yourself and your accomplishments! You probably have people who feel they are your friend and you don't even realize it! You need to sometimes be a little outgoing and just invite them out for a sporting event or movie, etc.! Also, maybe try hosting a party at your home and just get to know people and have fun! Do not give up, you are way too young! Life feels similar for many people! You just need to find your way! I am sure you are wonderful!
2007-02-23 21:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course everyone does! I am still young (I could say) but I’m a college student and even my relatives can’t believe that I’m already in college, but do I care? No! Some of the people say I’m immature cause even I already look young I’m trying to look younger than what they think I am, but all I did is make good grades, play sports, and the things that the people cant use against me, I may look young but I play soccer, I swim, I paint name it I can do all those things. Call me immature I call you loser!
Look for something you are good at and make it as a trophy. Enhance anything you got! Well about the people around you, just think if you don’t like me there’s no way I could like you either. If someone is loved by being their own selves there must be a lot out there! Maybe you are one of them… just being yourself.
All judgments bring out the best of me… call me stupid cause next exam I’ll get an A. I thank prejudices! Keep on coming!
2007-02-24 05:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are easy to make you just are not trying. One of the best books you can buy is called "how to win friends and influence people". Find out something about yourself that people like and cultivate it.
If you don't have a girlfriend find one. It may be hard, but keep at it. You may get rejected all the time, but never ever give up. There will be a girl out there who will want to be with you.
2007-02-24 05:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta relax, dude. Take some time out to relax and do something you like. Get out more. The more you interact with people the more you'll relax and make more friends. Maybe you're trying too hard. You are not doomed! Just be yourself and enjoy the people around you. And allow them to enjoy you. You've got your own spice to add to the flavor.
2007-02-24 05:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course..Everyone feels like it sometimes...even often depending on what I'm doing to better my own life at the time...
I saw a movie trailer once where a preacher in a gospel church("I'm not religious),told the congregation:"It's not a sin to get weary,it's alright to get weary...It's not alright to give up.."
So,take what you need to fell sad,jealous,lonely,hurt,or whatever,then after 2 weeks...DO something about it like exercise,practice being more outgoing ,etc..
I don't know you,but if you're like me ,I'm willing to bet that you are in a pattern at the moment of feeling sorry for yourself.The best thing about ME feeling sorry for myself is..I don't have to DO anything,and my biggest problem may REALLY be that I'm very lazy and don't wanna have to do anything to change things..Good luck...Allow yourself to feel sad or what ever,then change slowly what you are doing...
2007-02-24 05:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make it. If you give up, who will be the loser? Nobody else. You and you alone. Find something good in you and make it grow.Someday, you will be great by yourself. I've been to that, but I took it as a challenge to achieve more.
2007-02-24 05:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Makisig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just can say that no one can helps you except yourself.
2007-02-24 05:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on.... Life sometimes is not so good. someday somehow you will find life is so good!
2007-02-24 05:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by exo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋