I can't understand why I hate (no, hate is too strong a word) dislike and always deride my sister, who is four years younger than me (I am 19) The only clues I have to this problem is that I dislike my mother's wild and spirited character, though I love her, I'm embarrassed of her. When I was young, my friends used to make fun of my mom right in my face. And this wild and spirited character applies to my sister--my sister is very similar to my mother. They are both wild, both very caring, and loving. And each time my sister says to me: "I LOVE YOU!" I feel as if I'm going to barf with disgust....but I don't hate her. I have fun with her at times. But why do I try to best her all the time? Why do I always try to look smarter than her? When she has a bf, why do I try to steal attract him? What am I trying to prove by my callous actions? WHY am I acting like this?
2007-02-23 20:55:25 · 4 answers · asked by June H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sibling rivalry is quite normal but I think you're just a little insecure about yourself and that is the only reason I can think of for you trying to always put your sis down and compare yourself to her. I do hope you get over this quickly or you will end up hurting your lil' sister and that can turn out to be quite sad and definitely not something you would want.
2007-02-23 21:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i do feels the same way,but i do not do anything that hurts her.
i just can says that appreciate them while you can.It is predestined that you and her become sisters.never ever be enemy as they only will be at your side whenever you have problems.
2007-02-23 21:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your selfish spoiled and just a bad person
2007-02-23 20:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll get over it, your still young. and if you dont then shame on you.
2007-02-23 21:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋