how can I make my girl more interactive?

Question

I want her to express her self, her ideas, thoughts, to me..
I wish if I can make her more talkative, she is so silent & I hate that so much...
She is not trying to call & sms & mail me from time to time, though I know she loves me fro sure.

Answer 1

You "know she loves you for sure..."

Well, isn't that special.

Not that you seem to deserve it.

You want to MAKE her more interactive???

That is SOOO controling, and MAY be why she is so silent around you in the first place.

IF your comment is a reflection of the usual way you interact with her, then YOU have taught HER to be withdrawn around you.

Somewhere along the way you may have proved that she cannot trust you with her feelings, because you try to control and rationalize them, rather than simply listening and being empathetic.

But, let's give you the benefit of the doubt. You haven't been offensive and she hasn't reacted defensively.

Cherish her. Not because she doesn't talk much, but because she is likely introspective and humble, and the last thing you want to do is to beat her humility out of her for the sake of your pride...

God Bless You Both!

G.E.T. RN
Retired Psychiatric Registered Nurse

Answer 2

You can't 'make' someone anything. If you try, you are attempting to control them. I am thinking possibly this is a misuse of the word as it looks like English may not be your native language. If so, read on -
She needs a different level of communication than you. What you CAN do about it without compromising your integrity is either accept it and be fine with it, or break up. Before the breakup, talk to her about it. Say you feel negelcted and need more conversation. Maybe she does too, but is afraid to look too needy.
Good Luck, HTH

Answer 3

The problem is you not her. You can't MAKE anyone do anything. You want a more interactive girl go play a video game.

Answer 4

You make her sound like a video game.

Answer 5

take her silent place and give sexual play, she will talk