she was already having a boy friend but had a bad break up.
2007-02-23 20:21:14 · 13 answers · asked by Akhil_rockman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well me being a girl would have some knowledge in these kinds of situations.
It really depends on your girl though.
If your girlfriend is always talking about other boys or always around them instead of you, there is a chance she is using you to make them jealous.
Usually when a girl is using a boy, it either to get attention or to make someone jealous or mad. So if you can think of any reason wry she would be trying to do any of those things, maybe talk to her.
Don't directly accuse her of using you, but just ask her some reasons why she DOES want to be with you..
Would never hurt to try. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 20:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by yeah.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend has recently split from her ex, then she hasn't dealt with the hurt that it has caused her, you will know if she is using you by the way she acts, eg: does she only want to see you when it suits her? Do you spend money on her and dont get anything in return? If you aren't intimate with her either - this can be a sign....whats the story? Go with your gut feeling.
2007-02-23 20:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend is using you if you feel the lack of "warmth of so called-love"..a bad break, maybe one of the reason why girls have to look for another boyfriend..but not all girls are users..it 's up to you if you want to be an instrument so she can forget about her ex..this is the other side of being a boyfriend to her..
2007-02-23 20:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by corel_lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think if i'm right in understanding your question.... well is she break up with his x and come back in you AGAIN!!!
well this is the only thing,..., if she always hanging alone with another accompanys and if she's always want to have money from you she want's her to be alone.
2007-02-23 20:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is requiring you to give her things instead of your time and attention. And if she talks about him constantly or gets more flirty with you when he's around.
2007-02-23 20:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is on the rebound. She may be very open. Becareful. You could be hurt by any relationship with her.
2007-02-23 20:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by lorno5378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone elses sperm matted into her underwear is normally a good indicator.
2007-02-23 20:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take things slow, enjoy her company and see what develops. lots of people have baggage these days, you just got deal with it.
2007-02-23 20:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she takes off the saddle and puts you in the stable
2007-02-23 20:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jadeite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to ask this question---she probably is.
2007-02-23 20:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by DixeVil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋