I have no real friends. I've been on one date, and managed to get the girl to go from being head over heels for me, to getting pregnant by another guy in a month. I'm horribly shy, and I honestly sometimes just don't see it happening for me.
How do I deal with this? I'm 20 by the way. I was getting real depressed last semester about this, but it hasn't happened since I went out with the afore mentioned girl (once, the one and only date of my life). Since then I've just been ok. But I still have these negative thoughts from time to time.
2007-02-23 20:13:32 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your gonna sit in front of a computer at least use it to meet people and get out and attack life with a passion. Everybody crashes and burns just enjoy the ride!
Join a club with people who enjoy the same things you do ... Don't waste energy self evaluating too much ... it'll drive you crazy .... I am speaking from my own experience .... you sound like me about 10 years ago .... I had my heart broken pretty bad and then I just decided to "go for it" in general ... whatever "it" was .. I just went for it .... if you wait your just gonna miss out .. right? SO GO!
2007-02-23 20:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by bigtjeeper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, cheer up! you still very young, there be alot of great thing will happen to you in the future, it's too early to give up man , Iam 30 and to me life started at 30.
i suggest you to watch dvd 'The Secret" ( you can get it from Ebay)and you will understand that you create your own life . so when you want something and you believe you got it , you will get it , thats why it is important to stay positife and not to blame anyone or anything that happen in you life. Your thought is powerfull, anything you thinking about and believe it will eventually manifest. Try it, and believe .Study about Law of attraction and watch the Dvd ' the Secret .
When you feel down , and thinking that your life will be miserable stop for a minute and start counting your blessing be gratefull and write alist of what you can be grateful for or what make you happy. do that....and you will be optimistic again. Life only once ,live it to the fullest!Good Luck
2007-02-23 20:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by k_syofyan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be fine. My partner will die years before me as he is much older So i will die alone. How am i going to find some when i'm old. Worry about it in !5 years or so.And if Your asking how to convince your self you wont die alone. Convince yourself that you will need a carer or you will spend the last years of your life in a hospital bed and you will have hospital worker as your mates..
2007-02-23 20:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to convince yourself. I am in the same situation. Two dates in my life, I'm 19 going on 20 my sis set me up on both of them. I spent allot of time feeling like **** and thinking about it. Just let yourself be at peace that this could actually be a possibility, but you can still live a fulfilling life. Their are alot of people who are married and are miserable. Society tells us that we need to get married and have a family. But keep your head up I am sure something will come along sooner or later.
2007-02-23 20:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cheese 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you man, *guy hug thing*
All I can say is some guys have all the luck, stay focused on your studies, if you end up rich your guaranteed not to be alone.
Otherwise to meet that "one" don't get you hopes up it's really overrated anyway.
2007-02-23 20:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to come to the realization of your fear .You may grow old and die alone no really your shy I get that GET over it shy= scared what there to be scared of do women not breathe where your at . Do women not have blood in their veins. Are they legendary Amazons who have sex with men then kill them . If you answered yes to any of these q seek professional help and if you cant get over being shy grow old and die alone or try hypnosis
2007-02-23 20:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋