If woman are so all ears on their feeling wouldn’t it be simple for anyone including her ex to engage in recreation with her emotions and she would with no trouble fall into. I mean use emotions as a detrimental means… why are woman so focused on the emotional side? I see this unquestionably emotional side as a weak spot—more of an exposure. Know what I mean?
2007-02-23 20:10:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Women with healthy boundaries and a respect for themselves and their intuition actually have the edge there.
Realizing that emotions do not equal truth, and choosing to engage in healthy interactive relationships will keep men and women out of the type of co-dependent interactions you are describing.
There is always hope!
2007-02-23 20:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do understand and that is a huge problem: this culture doesn't tolerate the expression of emotion in public very well. I think this is perhaps - in part - while some men 'go postal'. They perhaps finally loose it altogether, grab a gun (which is far too easy to obtain in the USA ) and start shooting up shoppers at the local shopping mall. Your question doesn't make much sense to me - I don't understand what you are trying to say really. You ask "why are woman so focused on the emotional side" and I think because women are permitted by society to show more emotion this is why they don't "go postal". It is unhealthy to bottle up so much emotion: as we can see the result of doing this can be highly deadly. I have never heard of a woman shooting up a shopping mall, etc. - ONLY men.
2007-02-23 20:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am aware of what Failure To Thrive means. My daughter was bordering on it for a while right after birth actually (main reason she was formula fed). She will be 2 next month and she is still very small for her age (right around 5th percentile). But her weight is proportionate to her height, so she is just that, small. But I wasn't expecting an amazon woman to pop out considering I'm only 5 feet at 23 years myself lol She stopped bordering on FTT after she started gaining a bit of weight again. Her doctor checked her over for a growth hormone deficiency and did a few other tests (forget what they were now). So it has been determined that she simply got my tiny build (thankfully). But I agree. It is quite scary how many people don't actually know what Failure To Thrive is.
2016-03-28 21:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you're trying to say is you feel some men try to exploit women's emotions you are correct to some degree, but wrong to assume that emotions are somehow a "weak spot". What is "weak" though is the exploiter who has not yet grown up or developed enough character and feels the only way to get what he wants is to act manipulative and slimey. What's worse is he still hasn't got over his very inaccurate teenage assumption that emotions are insignificant. And what's worse than that? He has a nasty little habit of projectiong his own deep insecurities on to others and then calling him self powerful.
You know what they say, "bad boys are just troubled dudes with low self-esteem".
But yes, an inexperienced girl may run in to problems with those delightful bad boys if she's unable to see through his pathetic pretence. She needs to get smart...and he needs to get a life. But her emotions have nothing to do with it.
2007-02-23 20:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rain 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1/ Don't treat all women as if they are the same. There are more and greater variants in personality with in genders/sexes as there is between them.
2/ To not allow your emotions is a weakness in that unexpressed emotions are still there and come out as other elements - like manipulation or violence
3/ In the social schisming of the sexes, which is call gender, it has become one of women's tasks to carry the emotional touch. When men start to liberate themselves from anti-emotion then they may find freedom to understand and love fully.
2007-02-23 20:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is mostly nonsensical, except for the end. The emotional side could be one of 3 things. Bad if she's into bad boys, good if she finds a sensitive man, and a weapon if she's into manipulating nice guys.
2007-02-23 23:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. You question is barely legible.
2007-02-23 20:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by wendy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have NO CLUE what you just said.
2007-02-23 20:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by slaughter114 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋