How do i tell the boy i like that i like him?

Question

I like this boy and i told my friend and my friend told him. But that boy doesn't believe my friend and now I have to tell him myself because he is getting suspicious. How do i tell him without ruining our friendship?

Answer 1

sometimes boys dont believe coz they dont want to act all feeler and stuff and jump to conclusions about things.. they want to make sure so they're just waiting for that person to tell them what's really up.. guys can get awkward or stubborn sometimes coz they're just scared that some things will change, and for those guys, "change" is something they can't handle overnight.. but if he really cares about your friendship that you built together he wouldn't just stop it right there just of a crush.. he would understand.. and listen to you..
he cares.. and who knows, honey, he might feel the same way too.. i've said this before so im going to tell you.. "its better to tell now or live life wondering what could've happened"

and remember do not always think "what if he won't talk to me again?", or "what if he wont feel the same way?"

but what if he WILL?
see, GOD lets things happen for a very goood reason.. remember that.. and pray.. :) GOD BLESS!

Answer 2

Tell him just that, that you have feelings for him, and you wanted him to know, but you don't want it to ruin your friendship. He may feel the same way and you guys can go from there. Just try to be honest and talk to him, if you tell a friend, who tells a friend, things could get mixed up. Just tell him the truth.

Answer 3

Just tell him that you think you have feelings for him, that you are finding it a little embarrassing as you are concerned that if he doesn't feel the same way it may affect your friendship. It is great to have a boy that is a friend not just a boyfriend!

Answer 4

He already knows. There's obviously a spark between you. If he doesnt beleive your friend - well, that's a good sign. Above everything else - don't try too hard. Let him be suspicious and let him make the move.

Answer 5

If he likes you he probably thinks its a joke.


Do anything top get touchy with him.

Maybe ask him if he would like to go out with you.


Or get in a tickle fight... or ask him to rub moisturiser on your back.

ANY QUESTIONS LIKE THIS SHOULD REALLY HAVE YOUR AGES OR PEOPLE WILL GIVE YOU WRONG ADVICE.

He is probably used to girls rejecting him or laughing at him so you need to show you wont do that. and that you really do like him as right now as you said he does not believe it and thinks he is being set up to be laughed at.

Get him on his own and ask him, or give him your phone number.

or ask him for a back massage or any other way that gives him permission to touch you

Answer 6

Ok I was sortof in the same situation with my crush but now I finally got the nerves to just go up to him and tell him! give the guy signs to tell him that you like him. call him, hang out, or even when your with your friend act like you really like this guy when he is watching. e-mail him thats how I got my man!

Answer 7

here is a choice but u dont have to do this. you can see him in the halls or whenever u realy see him and then just say he it was true i do and then dont stop to talk just say tht you know if it runins ur relationship thent tht probablly means that he doesnt like you

Answer 8

jus pluck up that wee bit of courage and ask straight out,im sure he will be flattered and see how it goes eh?why would it ruin your friendship?

Answer 9

Straight up is always best. It will leave no doubt. Good luck.

Answer 10

Just let him know that his suspicions are pointless. Bacause what ever he heard is true.