My boyfriend has been so stressed out these days about his job. He's been feeling very low. He had a fight with his boss as his boss refused to promote him and in his job the only way forward is to be promoted. He works till evenings and in the meantime he goes for interviews in the lunch time looking for a new job. He spends his evenings and weekends preparig himself for these interviews. He's actually going for 2 big interviews near my city in 2 weeks time so we can see each other more often. He told me yesterday that we will meet each other in 2 weeks. He told me the other day that he's getting completely crazy with his company and he cannot wait until he leaves but he still needs to pretend in front of his boss that all is ok as he cannot just leave now. He told me he needs time to focus and he warned me he may be less available for me until then but I have not been able to leave him alone. I have become needy and I told him we're loosing our relaitonship. He became upset with me.
2007-02-23 20:02:48 · 1 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Right now, it's not about you, it's about him. You need to realize this and let him handle his business, be there for him, support him if you truly care about him. He's feeling a lot of pressure from work, you need to be his pressure release when he's not at work.
Put your feelings aside for him in his time of need.
2007-02-24 06:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋