Women: Do you have the urge to sleep with someone other than your partner?

Question

I have to admit - I think about it a lot. I don't feel guilt - but I do feel frustration!

I wondered if the majority of women actually felt much the same as most men do.

Answer 1

I experienced that in my relationship i was open with my partner and then we started having threesomes and such. he was happy i was open minded enough for this, and also loved me more for being honest.
So i was like the cat who got the cream.
I havent Loved anyone as much as him.
But it kept our sex life alive in many ways. Neither of us cheated we were totally honest with each other, and experiemented to please us both.
Sadly he passed on but thems the breaks.

Answer 2

I find some men attractive from time to time.

I have no feelings of guilt about feeling a pull of attraction towards someone else because I don't follow it through. Likewise, I do not feel frustrated as I am happy where I am emotionally and sexually.

If I felt frustration or guilt, I would know that the relationship I am in was in difficulty.

Answer 3

When I'm in a relationship with a man ? . . . Never. When in a relationship I will admit I might take notice or admire another man...yet that is as far as I let my mind go. The " urge " to sleep with another man other than the man I'm in a relationship with . . . no. I would think that if I did feel a real " urge " to be with or sleep with someone else...than that would be a signal to me that I am not fully happy with the man I'd currently be sharing a relationship with. And, if I felt that way . . . I would think very seriously if I should remain in that current relationship and maybe end the relationship so I could then go off and ' sleep ' with some other man I had an ' urge ' to sleep with.

It's o.k. to still ' admire ' other ' artwork '. Just don't touch it.
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Answer 4

Everyone at some point, goes though having those feelings.
It can happen because of circumstances too.

It is the hope that there is enough love and devotion that you would not 'want' to be with someone other than your spouse. You should have a fullfilling sex life with your spouse, and if you don't; then you should focus on fixing that and not seeking it with someone else.

Answer 5

We all feel like this sometimes I 'am sure but feeling like it and doing it are two different things, as to the frustration, if it is that bad just do it. If you do and get it out of your system please do not go running to your partner, some things are better not said, but you would have to be sure that it will not back-fire.

Answer 6

This question attracted me because I am so happy for my answer, which is I have no desire to sleep with anyone! Someday I might like to meet someone who shares my interests and for companionship beyond the sheets, and I am really grateful that I feel that way. So , I don't have the desire to sleep with anyone at all. Can I still get the 10 points?

Answer 7

Yes, I think we all, male and female, have moments where it seems appealing...but acting on it is the issue. We aren't dead but we do have vows or commitments and as long as you keep that in mind and don't act on the feelings, you shouldn't feel guilty. But usually it's an unspoken thing, so unless you have an open relationship I wouldn't make note of it.

Answer 8

I did feel the urge for other men, but it always passed. I felt that way when it felt like our sex life was missing something. I never cheated, it never crossed my mind.

Answer 9

I would check some one else out. But I would not think of sleeping with them.

I like the One Man / Boyfriend / Husband Policy

Answer 10

There's nothing wrong with fancying other people - we're only human. However, if I was in love with my partner, I may fancy someone else and feel chemistry with them but is no way I'd sleep with them, I'd feel unbelievably guilty!