Cause I don't think I would like it but you never know. So If I just tried it and then when back to girls would I be ungay or would I be stuck gay for life. I know if I kept doing it I would be Bi but I would stop all together with the opposite sex while doing the nast with the other sex. would that make me all the way gay a little gay or none of the above?
2007-02-23 19:32:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. It would make you a flower loving liberal.
That's just the way it is.
2007-02-23 19:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are what you are. I'm so glad you felt you could ask this question!! I'm a 49 yo heterosexual white woman but I am also a total believer in if you can find true happiness go for it, and you wont know till you try. First I want to say to be care full, there are lots of ways to get hurt, Leave your stomping grounds, even if the guy your interested in is some one you know.If it totally freaks you out no one you know will ever have to know. If you are liberal enough that may not be a problem. USE PROTECTION. I would hate to see one week end of curiosity really mess you up. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 03:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bains Gram 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Feel free to try me! You'll never know if you don't try it! I'm married and spent 14 years sucking other guys off at the gym. When I was finally bent over, and took it up the rear I knew for sure I was gay. I screamed "Ben" over, and over, and over. When I finished he was still in me, and I blew a load so big it shot on his face. By then I had him on the floor, and I was on top. Why did I wait so long? Take the chance, and find out for yourself.
2007-02-24 04:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by white wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't develop gayness. You are born sexuality, do the research, there's so much evidence of it.
Doing it won't make you bi, either.
You are gay when you have emotional and sexual/physical feelings towards guys. If all you are doing is blowing guys, then you might just like doing it, people like weird things (well, I don't think it's weird -_^). There are people who are just comfortable with their sexuality and don't care. Though, with the way you are afraid of turning gay, I don't think you are one of them.
Please remember, sexuality isn't a choice and isn't developed. It's in the genes that define how testosterone is distributed in the fetus in the womb. There are tons of research papers and such from official medical institutes on that (emphasis on "official"). Also, there is complete proof that trying to change your sexuality hurts you mentally. This includes studies on people who say they changed (but eventually realize they didn't) and people who had just undergone therapy to change it. Many people actually go insane trying to change it. If you end up realizing that you are gay, try to do what is best, don't hurt yourself.
2007-02-24 03:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Many straight men have sex with other men, it doesn't make them gay. Labels are something you give yourself, no-one else can do it for you. If you don't consider yourself to be gay, having sex with men won't make you so. It won't make you bisexual either unless that is how you see yourself.
Humans are sexual beings so enjoy sex, don't label it. I call myself gay because that is what I feel about myself. I have had sex with women but that doesn't alter the way I see myself and I do not consider myself to be bisexual either.
If you want to experiment, go for it. If you enjoy it, do it again, if you don't, don't. Just don't get bogged down with labels.
2007-02-24 04:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you even consider the idea, you are as gay as a may pole. why bother debating with yourself. You are gay. Plain and simple. You don't even have to go down on a dude. The fact that you want to makes you gay. Live with it.
2007-02-24 03:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by StormTracker257 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Studies say that many guys have imagined having sexual intercourse with other guys. It's natural and it doesn't mean you are gay.
Ill admit i have those thoughts once in a bluemoon but thank God it doesnt stick. Im all straight though and I dont even like gay people. This is just a thing most guys are afraid to admit, just like how A LOT of guys are afraid to admit they masturbate.
Its like saying that if i imagined killing someone, then im automatically a killer. its only thoughts and as long as you dont act on it then your ok. if you act on it, your gay.
2007-02-24 03:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Le Parrain 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, wanting to suck a dude off would just make you curious. Nothing wrong with that!!
2007-02-24 18:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by barrych209 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay is a state of being. You either are, or you're not. Actually, I think even thinking about doing a gay act is gay in itself! Stay straight, girls are all the more sweeter, smoother, sexier. They smell nice. Why would you want to hold a guy? We suck, we smell, we're rough. Dude, drop the gay thoughts!
2007-02-24 03:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sniper 1 · 3⤊ 3⤋
i think u will then be bi-curious. I slept with my best friend once,and i was experimenting.. She was bi,and actually seduced me. I am straight,and i think that for one time, since I was curious, I satisfied my curiousity. i sleep with men,and have no desire to sleep with women. That doesnt make me gay,but it did satisfy my curiosity in wondering if I was bi or gay. afterwards, she asked me if I enjoyed it. I told her i did, but I definitly didnt want to go to women. She laughed and told me i was most definitly straight!!!
2007-02-24 03:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are gay, you are gay-there is no all the way gay. And if you are a guy, and you are thinking about this I would say you are already gay.
2007-02-24 03:35:23 · answer #11 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋