2007-02-23 19:27:36 · 28 answers · asked by sparkle s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rarely, I agree it is harder for a guy because if she is attractive then he is naturally going to struggle with not thinking of her in a romantic/sexual way, women have an easier time because they can get free meals and drinks for nothing by being your" buddy" lol...just joking ladies...
2007-02-23 19:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by JEFF A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. If a guy or girl had feelings for every friend who is of the other sex, that person would have a lot of sexual partners. You can be best friends with a girl if you are a guy and a girl can be best friends with a guy. Boy friends and girl friends are not the only people who can be friends. I have lots of friends who are close that are females. It is okay.
2007-02-23 20:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by lorno5378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That's highly possible. The only problem with us human beings is that our actions and feelings are largely on habit. We grew up on a habit that a girl and a boy are opposites that attracts each other for sexual pleasure. That's why even in perfect platonic relationships, one of the parties would prefer to "set the record straight lest the other harbors wrong impressions". While it is also perfectly right for friends to later become lovers, it is our habitual thinking that makes others think that his/her friends of the opposite sex are brooding ground to choose future spouses.
2007-02-23 20:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can also have love without the *** and the *** without the love. Sometimes things develop between people, but not always.
2007-02-23 22:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by kekeke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya of course they can my best friend is a girl and she is very very nice but we are just friends and we can talk about anything from relationships to sex or even when we go out night clubbing who we got of with and so on that's what makes a good girlfriend
2007-02-23 19:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can. It has happened to me. We do love and care for each other, but there will never be anything more between us. We don't want to risk ruining what we have, which we both think is very special.
2007-02-23 19:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it is rare. Generally the fellow will be more likely to have feelings for the gal.
2007-02-23 19:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think so, they can be best friends without acting upon those feelings though
2007-02-23 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-02-23 19:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sure.
But I think to be able to do this, your best friend should have at least one thing about him/her that you find repulsive. Haha!
2007-02-23 19:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by eissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋