she's not the bio mom, she adopted him to be a mother and I am raising her child
2007-02-23 18:20:49 · 18 answers · asked by susy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old is the child? I am taking it that you are asking why the mother adopted the Child, but isnt taking care of him/her.
We wouldnt be able to answer this question. Because we dont have any information to go off of.
Why are you raising the Child?
Best of luck!
2007-02-23 18:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
So I'm not the bio father and I'm raising him myself and I love it to death .Its just a kid not the end of the world .If you don't love it then go about your way and let someone have the child that will love it . Poor kid . You 2 make the kid out to be a pain in the butt when really its 2 selfish people that don't know the meaning of love
2007-02-24 02:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter that she's not the bio mom.....biology means little...what a child needs is someone to love them.
you need to go to counseling with someone who can help you deal with this. you need to either be a support for that child, or get a divorce (although if you do that your husband is going to replace you with someone who won't treat your baby well)....
you need to stop whining. you said on your other question that people are acting like you're the bad guy....news flash, you're the adult....the child is 4.....you are the bad guy since you're complaining so much.
either get over it or get divorced. if you choose the "get over it" option, hug that child 10 times a day until you stop thinking like this. if that doesn't work, put a dollar in a jar everytime you have a negative thought about his mother or him. everytime his mother comes to pick him up from your house....give her the jar.
sooner or later you might "get it"
2007-02-24 02:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's the step mother who wanted a child and you can't be raising her child because she didn't have one in the first place that's why she adopted him (he's not hers) and you are raising her child now. Thank you.
2007-02-24 17:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child has three mothers.
1. Bio Mom
2. Who adopted him
3. Who is raising him.
You have the most rights over him, because you are giveing him care and love.
2007-02-24 03:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the question? Its fine that you are raising the child good for her for adopting a kid! taht's great!
2007-02-24 02:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS a great person your raising that child. BLESS u.
2007-02-24 02:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, is this a riddle......if so, you're the adoptive mom. if not, what was the question....?
2007-02-24 02:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by a.n.a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more information.
2007-02-24 02:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the question? Is it a trick question?
2007-02-24 02:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by llgreen_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋