I am very hard jop and spend long hour in my office. so I have only chance to looking for in internet site where can be avaible girl for me . I would like to marry with cute girl or women who can love me . cause I am much feeling alone and I want to share my feelings and hopes too. can I realy find a women from internet ?
2007-02-23 17:54:45 · 13 answers · asked by ovelik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old R U?
2007-02-23 18:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by kidi_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that internet dating will give you what you put into it. I had some spare time while going to school recently and went on eharmony figuring I'd try my luck and meet some new people. I talked to a lot of guys, met a couple and wound up (after three months) finding the love of my life on there.
Someone said something like " there are some things missing." I think that talking to someone before meeting them in person worked out really well. I could tell by the conversation online how we would be in person. The people who I had a lot in common with online were the same people that I had a lot to talk about with in person. The guys that freaked me out a bit were also a little creepy in person. After I caught onto this I was able to rule guys out much sooner based on my instincts about them.
It's also nice knowing that someone you meet online is also looking for a relationship like you. If you meet people "on the street" they might be just out of a relationship, still heartbroken, not emotionally ready but if they are spending the time and money online then they are more likely to be serious about a relationship. I liked eharmony better than some other sites because I felt like people with ulterior motives couldn't seek me out, you are given matches with people. Also, it seemed like people were more interested in serious relationships on eharm than match.com where some people are just looking for new friends/hook ups/sex. Think about the kind of site you use and what kind of people it attracts.
Side note: If you don't feel that you are able to devote the time to finding a person who could possibly improve the quality of the rest of your life, are you going to have enough time to devote to that person if you find them?
Maybe people who are not sucessful don't stick to it long enough, or have the kind of communication skills to find people online. Guys who sent me messages that said "Hi how r u 2day?" as their first e-mail were not guys that I pursued. My dad and one of my best friends also met their live-in significant other through the internet.
My advice: have high hopes but low expectations, enjoy talking to and getting to know new people, follow your gut instinct. I knew that something was different the first time I got an e-mail from my man, the first time we met and every day since then.
Good luck!
2007-02-24 03:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by summer7811 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mail order brides are out there. You have to have big money though. Around at least $20000. Do your research to make sure you find a reputable agency as there are many crook agencies out there. I would not even consider looking for a marriage prospect on a cheap dating site like or in a chat room. The east euro women can be gorgous and very modest!
2007-02-24 02:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From everyone I have talked to that has tried long term relationship using the internet, it hasn't worked. Have you ever tried a fix up through family or friends? I met my wife through family contacts and it worked better than any relationship that I started through other means. We were married for 16 years until I lost her to cancer, otherwise I'm positive we would still be married. It was 16 years of honeymoon. Ask your family if they have friends with single unattached females in their families.
2007-02-24 02:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware!!! 80% of women aren't looking for an equal partner that they can love, they are looking for a free place to live, free food, and a car that is being paid for by you.. As a male, your feelings , hopes, and desires mean nothing to this 80%. They will appear to care until you are to far in to get out of the situation (marriage or pregnancy) , then their real priorities become apparent. Then you become disposable while they continue to live off of your earned income after they lie to whoever they need to to get you out of your own house. Good Luck :-)
2007-02-24 02:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by schlum l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. I recently went to a job interview. We had to introduce ourselves and there was a couple there that met on the internet-now they have been married for 8 years. You can do everything on the internet-from buying things, to meeting people, to getting a job. Try crushspot.com,blackplanet.com, and myspace.com.
2007-02-24 01:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, u can try this way, http://www.intercamz.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=14&Itemid=28 this is an adress with a live feed, follow that feed and then click it...it will take u to a site , there they have online models wich they really search to get married , Online Models > Get Married , hope this was useful, cheers
2007-02-24 02:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Koko2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be nice. I love my computer. :) That would be the ideal place to meet someone. But so many important elements are left out.
A friend of mine met his girlfriend online. They have a good relationship.
2007-02-24 01:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and you can also find one at the Library, the church, the grocery store, or while washing your car. Get out of the office for a change and explore for some fun and happiness...
2007-02-24 02:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of online dating site, but be sure to choice thedescent type of dating service.
2007-02-24 01:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋