It seems like to me whenever a man is taken other women want them more then if they were single, like for example before i had gotten married my husband liked me untill he met my cousin then he liked her but she didn't like him untill i told her i liked him then she started to flirt and treat him nice, then after she got him and slept with him she dumped him, and after we got married it seemed like the women came crawling out of the wood work. then we divorced and i got a new boyfriend and it is like women find out he is good with computers and cars and such and they all like flirt with him. He thinks I am paranoid but he don't see the way they flirt with him and the evil looks i get because he is with me and not them.why do alot of women do that for??
2007-02-23 17:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Frenchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie,
I've always had the same problem. Women consider my hubbie to be a great catch. He's handsome and easy going and spoils me. Other women see that and they are threatened by the situation. They want to be the one with the good looking super considerate sweet guy with the good job. They can't understand why it's you and not them. Plain and simple it's jealousy.
The situation reminds me of children. They are not interested in a toy until another child starts to play with it and then they decide it should be theirs. It's ridiculous that grown women act like toddlers. They want to take your boy toy away from you.
Consider the nasty looks to be a compliment. It means you've got a hot, desirable guy. Enjoy the reactions but keep an eye out! LOL
BTW: Sorry to dis your family but your cousin was way out of line. Her actions give a perfect example of what I'm talking about.
You described it yourself--the jealousy factor. Friends or family are not supposed to act that way.
If it's any consolation, guys are oblivious to the catty games that b****** play. Most of the time they don't even realize that a woman is flirting with them. Stop pointing it out to him and stop worrying. He's chosen to be with you, sweetie. Next time they give you the look, don't give them the satisfaction of letting it upset you. Just take his arm and lean your head on his shoulder and smile at the b*****! It will drive them crazy.
All the best! Good luck.
2007-02-23 18:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound odd but no one wants something that nobody else wants. Some women seem to think that if a man has someone that he must be really special but if he is single that there must be something with him. So guys if you want to meet a lady you might want more female friends.
2007-02-23 17:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Doobee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are competitive biotches and figure if a man is taken, then he must have some good attributes.
2007-02-23 18:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting run on sentence. The only explanation that I can offer is that the man might be considered forbidden fruit(another woman's property).
2007-02-23 17:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by rotorhead911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, if he's taken, he's proved that he's capable of committing to a relationship. If a guy is single, he gets labeled a player who cannot commit.
2007-02-23 18:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with doodee
2007-02-23 17:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋