2007-02-23 17:01:59 · 17 answers · asked by mirani21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had an email that prooved my husband doing it ..the before and after email all in one from both sides and he stood there in front of me and STILL denied it with the email right in front of his face. Give up on a confession,you have the proof you said so what more do you need. Of course she wont admit it to you.
2007-02-23 17:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cheaters rarely tell you the truth. They are usually really good at lying; twisting the truth; putting the blame on you instead of taking responsibility for themselves. If you are sure you have the proof; do you really need the confession. It would be nice, and it would make you feel better; but it might not happen.
2007-02-24 01:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have proof, do you think she needs to confess? well, show or tell her the proof (depending if it's like a picture or if you actually saw her). if she tries to deny it, then divorce may be right around the corner, because if she hasn't been honest with you, it's not going to get any better, especially now that she's got someone else to twirk with. so, your last resort may be divorce, because marrige is about truth, honesty, and respect. from what you say, she's not showing those qualities. you may not want to let go. for example, my ex boyfriend was cheating on me, but i didn't want to let go because i was afraid i would hurt his feelings. but i did let him go, because he hurt my feelings and crushed my heart. if i hadn't broken up with him and gotten my new, sweet boyfriend, i'd be miserable. so, if this keeps going on, if you hang onto her, it's not going to get any better, is it? the lies may keep going on, and on, until there's absolutely no truth between you two. i think it's time to divorce, just how i broke up with my boyfriend. it's hard, but you'll soon be so happy you did it. if you don't, you may regret it later in life.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 22:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by taylor ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you confronted your wife with the proof? If not, do it now. Don't wait. If she still denies that she's doing something wrong, let her go. You want a marriage based on honesty and trust, not lies and deceit. Many blessings.
2007-02-24 03:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you shown her your proof? And she still denys it? It's up to you to show her your proof, and if you want the marriage still, go for counseling-both of you. If not, then divorce is an option. Take care.
2007-02-24 01:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have proof and she still won't fess up then get a divorce or seek counseling.
If you really want to prove it then catch her in the act.
2007-02-24 03:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not confessing it usually means she is ashamed of it, and doesn't want to suffer the consequences of what is going to happen because of it. but by confessing it, she can get on with life, she can be set free from it. by owning up to it it will help her mature, and admit her wrong and understand that what she did hurt u. but if she is not admitting it maybe she has no intention of stopping her behavior.
2007-02-24 05:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not confront her alone again. That can turn into an ugly scene or fight. Go to your preacher or an older,wiser friend to help mediate.
2007-02-24 01:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by nocitome 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say divorce her and end it. She is no longer yours anyway. Cheating breaks the bond of marriage or BF/GF bond.
2007-02-24 01:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she won't confess and you have proof then show her the proof.
2007-02-24 01:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋