I Kinda Want To Talk To My Bf About Sex But I'm A Lil Scared To He Says He Want To Do "It" But I'm Scared To Any Ideas???
2007-02-23 16:57:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You don't sound ready for sex.
2007-02-23 18:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by slack action 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're scared, then you're not ready. It is good to not do anything until you get married, but if you do, make sure you educate yourself and talk to a parent, school nurse, doctor, or someone at the health department., Maybe if you're at the hospital, pick up a pamplet (small free info book). Once you start having sex, especially unprotected sex, you raise your risks of STDs, urinary tract infections (which hurt alot), and pregnancy. Of course boys will want to have sex. But if you're younger you should wait. If he really cares about you he'll respect your wishes. Otherwise, you'll definately need another boyfriend.
2007-02-24 03:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Buffy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he wants to have sex, he's a teenage boy! The important thing to do is make sure YOU are ready. Talk to your boyfriend, but don't make him the only person you speak to about this, as he's more likely to just try to convince you to have sex than to have a thoughtful discussion about the topic. Make sure you educate yourself on contraception and talk to a range of people. I would suggest speaking to some adults as well as close friends. Maybe a GP, school counsellor or trusted teacher if you can't go to a parent. Before you do anything though, make sure you equip yourself with all the relevant facts and information.
2007-02-24 01:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by es_puro_instinto 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but I am telling you this girl to girl. Guys like sex...A LOT! And frankly they will do anything to get it. I am not say this to try to hurt you but it is more often then not the reality. If you are worried about doing "it" then stick with ur gut. Don't be worried about him leaving you cuz you don't want to do "it" to be honest....HE SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT YOU (leaving him) CUZ HE'S PRESSURING YOU INTO IT!Sex should be something that feels right between the two of you and you will know if your ready. Don't rush yourself. If you cannot talk about it with him then I don't think that sex is the thing that you should be doing. If you are gonna sleep with someone you have to feel comfortable around them....and you should be able to talk to them openly. Good luck!
*cuddles* <3
2007-02-27 17:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to all the people you trust first and buy some condoms! If you don't feel relax talking about sex then imagine talking about an unwanted pregnancy... Be sure you know each other well. You can talk about how you like to kiss him, what he likes you do to him and build the conversation up. Don't worry, it's normal to feel shy, many people will have sex without talking about it first but the relationship will be stronger if you can clear things up first.
2007-02-26 09:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared to talk to your boyfriend about sex, you're not ready to have sex. It is a serious matter that needs a serious conversational. Being a little nervous is ok, but being a little scared is not ok.
2007-02-25 22:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a conversation you need to have. it is hard to bring up but once you do just be serious about it. let him know how you feel about sex and find out how he feels. also tell him if you have had any sexual partners and how many. if you have you should probably be tested. you need to find out from him if he has and how many and if he has been tested. just tell him you wanted to talk to him about it and make sure you were both on the same page. once its out there it isnt as bad as it seems.
2007-02-24 21:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him about it and you're scared you are NOT ready to have sex...HE only wants to use you because he knows you are a virgin and losers like him want to use virgins because they think that having sex with a virgin makes them REAL men...a REAL man who cared about you wouldn't say he wanted to do it unless you wanted to as well.
2007-02-24 05:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey baby dont scared of this thing it is a natural thing which is gifted to every human being..
dont supress ur feelings due to ur shyness. go ahead and ask for the greatest pleasure of life..
i am read y to have an experience like that r u ready for same.. i am waiting for ur replay my sweety pieee
2007-02-26 13:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by raven_your_dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r ready do it but it's totally up 2 u if u r still a virgin! I mean i'm still a virgin but i'm going to have sex when i'm ready 2!
2007-02-24 19:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyLittleLiar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not sound ready for sex, do not feel pressured into doing it, you should only have sex in a commited relationship with someone you feel comfortable enough to talk to about it, please wait until the time is right
2007-02-24 03:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by tracy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋