2007-02-23 16:54:22 · 13 answers · asked by raymond_h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ultimately we are all alone...
2007-02-23 16:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have accepted, and perhaps even welcomed the fact that I may be destined to be alone. My life feels whole now, I don't feel alone. Maybe it's because I have two sons, and a lot of friends. I almost feel that it would be unfair for me to date someone now. I am about to start grad school, and barely have enough time for myself as it is. If I did find someone, she would have to be as busy as me, and reading/writing papers (my thesis) would be quality time together. I also think if you feel you are destined to be alone, well than that is what you portray to others, and I don't think that is very attractive. You might not do this, but I know someone who does, and she is always making comments about how she is unmarried and single and it just makes me feel bad for her. Anyways, the harder you try, the harder you fail. Don't put so much pressure on yourself.
2016-03-29 09:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just when things cant get any better. They're finished. We are all destined to be something, however if you have friends, family, but no "soul mate" You are still not alone.
2007-02-25 12:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by ch0r0_matsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, except i am terrified by the idea. i don't want to be alone, but i have these depressing feelings that revolve around me being a failure in life. i recently started cutting because of my depression too. i don't recommend it.
but if you feel like you are destined to be alone because you WANT to be alone, hey, good for you! it is refreshing to see a person who is strong enough with himself to not need a girl. some people never get married because of a choice they made, but it works out for them.
whatever your situation, good luck.
2007-02-23 17:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sinetimes I think that is the myth we all subscribe to - that we need to be in a lifelong relationship. The truth is we don't and some of us are better off on their own. Everyone is different, but I would sometimes say it is almost human nature to assume the grass is always greener on the other side.
2007-02-23 18:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think I married my one true love & when I divorced I figured it would be easy to meet someone else special but it's been 12 years so I'm happy & used to being by myself & I only get lonely once in a while
2007-02-23 17:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone can feel like that at times. Try not to dwell on that and surround yourself with good friends and supportive people, then everything else follows.
2007-02-23 17:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly there are people who cant hold jobs for long but not completely alone my sole mate is sure gonna get sick of me on the back 9.
but i dont think shes gonna find anyone sweeter.
2007-02-23 16:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by loopy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... and i'm not planning to be. Me and my bf have no intentions of being alone ever....
2007-02-23 16:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh always. ive been alone just about all my life, i only feel comfortable when im by myself and as far any serious romantic attachments? nobody loves a loser.
2007-02-23 17:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by manicdetroiter 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your born alone and most likely you will die alone dear.
2007-02-23 17:10:08 · answer #11 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋