I am a loner at school?

Question

I am a freshman in highschool and sometimes I feel like a loner. I don't hang out with the group of friends I use to in middle school, and I don't really talk to the people in my classes. Sometimes it bothers me that I don't have very many friends anymore, but at the same time I don't really care. I just don't feel like talking to the people in my classes and I actually prefer to work alone. I also walk alone to all of my classes and I only hang out with one friend at lunch. However, what's weird is that I always feel depressed at school, but then during 6th period when I have track and at home I am very happy and full of energy. I am a nice person and easy to get along with, but is it that I always have to approach people instead of them talking to me? What should I do?

Answer 1

i used to b like this now im a sophmore
so heres wat u do.....
nobody will feel sorry for u
so u have to keep ur head up through all ur classes
and soon people will be like omg shes so cool
dont let things like this get to u
just act really outgoing and happy
IT WORKS!!!!!!

it worked for me

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

Hmm... Sort of, yeah. I only have two friends, and they are in the year above me, so I have to be a loner in class and on school trips. It can be really tough, especially when the teacher says 'get into groups.' I eat lunch with my older friends, and sometimes I see them at break, but usually I spend break alone in the library or outside my next lesson. I will be a COMPLETE loner next year, because my friends are leaving :( and I'm terrible at making new friends, and last year I was a complete loner, too. And yeah, I totally agree that no one cares unless you're pretty or dying. Gosh, there are some RUDE people at my school. Xx

Answer 3

hey!

There's really nth wrong with being a loner, sometimes, I like being a loner too... in fact I was one... I didn't have any friends when I transfered to another school, this was juz last yr.. I used to sit alone during lunch in an empty room and go to classes alone too! ^^"

but if ur a really cool and happy-go-lucky person, then u shud show it... there's nth wrong with approaching ppl, if ur new, then usually, u shud be the one to initiate a convo.. if u find the right group, u'll fit right in, and in no time, they'll treat u like one of their own.. slowly, u'll build up a bigger group of friends, that's how it goes.. then, as time goes on.. some ppl wud approach u.. (with friends, one or the other must initiate.. what if it turns out to be a great friendship? u wudn't regret after... for sure... ^^")

maybe, u'll be able to help other freshmen or new *transfer* students in ur high school... it's never a problem to initiate, juz be confident, and if that someone doesn't like u, their loss.. they'll never get to know wat a great person u are... =p

gud luck!!~

-SC-

Answer 4

The first thing you should do so that you are not a loner any more is to join some of the clubs that your school has to offer in which case you will make friends in each one of them Join some sports teams after school where you will make friends also.

Answer 5

Homeschooling!!!

The best thing that ever happened to me when I was in high school..Imagine being the only black person at your school and no one wanting to hang around you because of it.

Home Schooling is definitley your thing, talk to your school counselor and he/she will tell you about some programs, talk to your parents too..Good Luck

Answer 6

Dont feel bad. im 11 and i have a problem with being social. when i was 5 my mom was concerned because i never talked to anybody. she kept giving me lectures to talk to the other kindergardners. she lectured me so hard i cryed when she told me to go talk to that kid in the class. the docters explained it in an easy way to ME. this is unlike what you have. i get lost in my own world. medication helped me. im better now. im scared to talk but i just do.

Answer 7

You say you like being by yourself and you say you dont like being by yourself. If I was you I would talk to people in class and hang out with your friend at lunch.

Answer 8

I also was a loner in highschool....but i didn't care about it......you will be alright....give yourself time....as long as you are happy with yourself thats what matters.

Answer 9

Do u be urself....cuz i am myself and im popular have loadz of friends or else when its recess ask sum ppl if u can play with them and if they say yes and u have a lot of fun u'll make a friend

Answer 10

You should start sleeping around. This will make you an instant winner. You will become popular in no time.