im 14 and ive never been kissed and now i think that i might be kissing someone soon...any tips? lol
2007-02-23 16:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by :D haha 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't understand why people are saying don't do it if you are not ready, you obviously are ready to kiss someone or you wouldn't have put it on here. And I'm pretty sure you were asking for tips from people who have kissed someone, not for someone to tell you that you can kiss when you are eighteen... so here are a few tips:
use lip balm, not lip gloss (so your lips aren't dry or sticky)
brush your teeth (have a few mints just in case)
and go with the flow, follow his lead.
GOOD LUCK and hope your first kiss is UH-MAZING!!
2007-02-24 00:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by blueyedbabe_91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being nervous about my first kiss like it was yesterday, lol. I ended up moving and he just pecked me on the cheek.
Really though try to refrain from that. I know its hard to not be embarrassed when you are young but maybe let him/her know you have never done it before. You can say "hey Ive never done this before but Im sure you won't mind lots of practice". Honesty with some witty humor lightens almost anything. And if you can be honest your relationship will be stronger too.
Or you could try the good ole hand practice method. Start with a closed kiss then gently open.
Remember its more of a dance with a tongue if thats what you are doing, the goal isn't to stick it down their throat. And dont keep it in one place or thats quite blah. It really isnt that hard to kiss and be a good kisser. I have actually heard discussions and had comments way back when that I was excellent.
Overall just dont drool all over the place! Hope that may help you out. You can also position your hand on their neck or jaw line to take a little edge off so you arent just there face on face.
2007-02-24 00:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is: DON'T KISS!!! you made it all the way to 14! Keep at it! Don't kiss yet. You're still too young. This "single-1st time-kiss" could make you feel a pang of guilt that you'd wish you never kissed at all.
You can kiss when you turn 18 or when you know that "he's the one". To be honest...at age 14, that's probably just puppy love/infatuation...you cannot say he's the one yet. i haven't heard of anybody who had a boyfriend since 14yrs of age, married him, and lived happily ever after. My point is, wait till the right one comes, by waiting, you dont only please God. But also, you are giving your future husband the greatest gift he could ever ask for.
Also...a kiss could lead to something you'll regret. Maybe not on the first time you kissed....but i assure you...it will follow. So it's better not to kiss.
There's no big deal if you haven't been kissed yet. It's not funny at all. In fact it's good. Im female, 19 yrs old...i haven't kiss yet...and im proud of it! and for that, my friends who have already kissed(which almost all of them regretted) look up to me. I hope you'll wait. Do the right thing in God's eyes! God Bless you!
2007-02-24 01:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by babheee 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Two words: lip gloss. That's my only tip. Dry lips aren't very pleasant to kiss. Apart from that, just go with it!
2007-02-24 02:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by es_puro_instinto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I'm pretty sure the guy that's gonna give you your first kiss won't mind at all ;)
2007-02-24 00:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Just let him make the move and go along. You might be the best kisser!
2007-02-24 00:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT chew gum kuz it makes ur sumthin in ur mouth work from all that chewing and then it makes you get bad breath
eat sum mints er sumthin
=]
2007-02-24 00:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by CHiLA GiLLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry its nothing serious. just let the boy startt off. dont eat nothing before you do it. my first kissed was at 13 and it was alright. i was scared but its was str8.
2007-02-24 02:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by BaBy gUrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure its someone you really like or youll hate yourself for wasting it. if he likes u too then he'll be nervous as well, so dont be worried. when it happens it happens, if u try to plan it, then itll suck.
2007-02-24 01:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh make sure you really like the boy cause first kisses can be pretty crappy
2007-02-24 00:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋