how to kiss a guy.?

Question

okay. i've never like kissed, like make out, with a guy before. and im EXTREMELY nervous, cause i dont know how. my boyfriend really wants to. and i keep putting it off, but its gunna happen soon. so how do you kiss?

Answer 1

oh dear its not possible to teach kissing on the net. just see any movies in which they show kissing

Answer 2

Don't you WANT to kiss him? Try this. Ask him to sit very still and keep his hands to himself for a moment. Tell him that you want to kiss HIM. In a soft whisper, ask him to close his eyes. Wait a moment and then brush your lips near his ear and then kiss his cheek softly. Whisper again for him to be still and keep his eyes closed. Very tenderly, kiss him by the corner of his lips. Not a peck. But press your lips lovingly and kiss him on the corner. Then, brush your lips over his lips to the left and then to the right. Enjoy the wonderful scent of him and close your eyes. Pretty much, after you do that part about brushing your lips left and right, he'll sorta take over. Enjoy.

Answer 3

its really just the kind of "take it as it comes" kinda thing.
since this is your first kiss, its probably going to end up awkward and probably not the most perfect, but if you just play it smooth and do what you think you're supposed to, it'll be sweet either way.

im sure your boyfriend wont make it a big deal if its not the perfect make out session, you'll get better as you do it more.

just dont procrastinate too much longer, it'll make him feel like he's doing something wrong. it'll be okay, just dont rush it, or make it too much of a big deal

Answer 4

Control your saliva! No man likes to really be drooled on. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.
The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.
Don’t surprise a new man with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date rape. It usually leaves the man longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for him but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get his libido up to the same speed as yours.
Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a man is particularly sensitive he likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of his neck, his wrist, his ears, his stomach.
Don’t try and figure out how sensitive his gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.
Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on his forehead, his cheek, and her neck…and of course back to his lips.
Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.
Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let him come to you at times…don’t always be chasing him with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what he can teach you.
Don’t go frenching his ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.
Do tug gently on his earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss his neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?
Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new man. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one man likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.
Leave him wanting more. Don’t kiss him so much that her lips are raw and his face aches – leave him wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning). Hope this helps you out.

Answer 5

for my first make out session i was super nervous too. so i just copied what he did. not exactly but like the same style. like he was into shoving his tongue down my throat, yeah weird. so i did it back to him, and he liked it. most people kiss like how they want to be kissed.

Answer 6

Guys don't care. As long as they are kissing on someone, they are happy.

Answer 7

look girlie.....first wear a sexy dress.then,come towards him,say that you love him and you want to kiss him.and afterthen,bring your lips towards his lips andtouch your lips to his lips......all the best

Answer 8

i'm a guy,so i know how.you just kiss him