I try hard not to desire intimacy because I know I won't get it at home. We're going through a divorce but still living together. I read, I pray and I involve myself in other things but I still desire affection and attention from the opposite sex. What can I do?
2007-02-23 15:58:06 · 9 answers · asked by QuEEn B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, why are you still living together if you are getting a divorce??? Get it over with, move out and make a life for yourself and live it the way you want to,,,,
2007-02-23 16:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Geezus! Have you no goddamned respect for the promises you made?
You pray? To who? Whatever god you pray to is so ashamed to know you if you ever met he wouldn't stop throwing up on you. Pray - pffft! What a phony! Don't just talk it - walk it. Or stop praying. But not both.
Can't you wait just a while - until the corpse of the last marriage cools off before you are bouncing up and down on another new pole? Ever tried just being on your own? Scary, isn't it? Grow up and try it. Just because your husband spit on his vows, it doesn't mean you have to as well.
And why do you think you are the ONLY person who desires affection and attention from the opposite sex? We *all* do. But we don't let the circumstances dictate what the rules are. Otherwise we are just wild dogs sniffing around f*cking anything that stands still long enough for us to mount it.
2007-02-24 01:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your getting divorced? What difference does it make? you have ended the relationship, so move out and end it. You cannot be half way married ie. living together and expecting him to meet some of your needs while hitting every deep wound in each other. Get back in the marriage 100% or hit the bricks. Being half married sounds incredibly painful.
2007-02-24 00:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by G&L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to do what your doing. Pray ALL THE TIME. I promise God has something BETTER in store for you. You deserve lots of love and affection. Try to meet as many single women as possible - attach yourself to them and jump in. Your time with other men will come - BE PATIENT. As soon as you are legally FREE - Flirt, Date and have fun while your doing it. You've been there - done that - Now you know what you DON'T in a marriage! It's more than you knew before you married your current beau. Take care of yourself and good luck!
2007-02-24 00:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by kajungirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are truley praying then ask God to give you the strength to get through this divorce and not sleep around while waiting for it. Once the divorce is final then you can date again i guess. Have you both been to marriage counseling for your marriage at all and may i ask why you are getting divorced?
2007-02-24 00:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and then start seeing other people.
2007-02-24 03:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your dignity for all concerned and go way outside your city.
2007-02-24 00:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get some love outside...but very discreet...
I totally understand your situation...
2007-02-24 00:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move out
2007-02-24 00:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋