Do you feel used?

I feel used up until recently anyways, you know they say once you get divorce, your divorced, you take you're grieving time and then you can move on, well not in my case, I've been divorced for 7 years now, and my ex still calls me, wanting me to go with him to the grocery store, I do all the shopping, put everything in the car, then carry it all in his house and put it away, then sometimes he calls me wanting me to help him, work on his house, calls me to come over to clean his house, do all their laundry, take care of his feet and legs, take care of him and the kids when their sick, and for the longest time up until about 2 months ago, I was giving him B.J. so yea, I felt damn used.

2007-02-23 16:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Boy do I ever? I will not blame anyone at this stage of the relationship, because I keep allowing it to happen. I'm making a move now, I just want my heart to be OK and if it won't, God will heal it. Do you feel used?

2007-03-02 14:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

yes now that im seprated i been trying to figure out stuff but i supported my husband and he would drink most the time and abuse me i blame him for our marrige falling apart now i heard he's living with another women i wouldn't doult it because some body is paying his rent he wouldn't work just stayed drunk so yes i feel used he threw me away like trash i was older but he knew when we married if id known how it would be i wouldn't of married him

2007-03-02 06:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Nope not at all. In fact i feel good and very loved by my wonderful and loving husband:) Are you feeling used by someone?

2007-02-23 16:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Nah..I don't feel brand new by any means... :)
But I feel I am not ready for the back row of the car lot either!!...lol

2007-02-23 16:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

sometimes. i think everyone does at one point or another in their lives. the trick is to learn from every situation and don't let it happen again!
cheers!

2007-02-27 15:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Daily for life until I realized this is my own fault.

2007-02-23 16:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mensa Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I do by my old friends. I am taking care of that problem right now!!!

2007-03-02 14:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by mominkansas03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Sometimes.

2007-02-23 19:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

yes for sure.and what do u get in return,not even a thank u.(how rude)

2007-03-02 03:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

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