My bf of almost 1y6months has changed within the last wk and i don't understand!! He has been going to his friends,brothers.....place and bearly has time to spend with me (we live 2gether) and when he DOES come home-he goes RIGHT to bed!! we have went to having...*** everyday to NOT having ANYTHING AT ALL!!!! WHAT IS UP,PLEASE HELP?????
2007-02-23 15:35:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
plus when i ask him he says some girls name (Chavela) but his friends say the same thing when they're just with the guys!!! he thinks everything is a joke!! Also he is planning to go back to mexico,(he's mexican) could that b it?
2007-02-23 16:06:12 · update #1
He is definitely cheating on you sorry to say,ain't men picks.Don't they understand the pain they cause just so they can have sex with someone else.To them it is just sex means nothing to them but to us the world has just stopped, everything that was good yesterday means nothing today.My husband cheated on me and he was doing the exacted thing your man is doing to you or should I say isn't doing to you.I no your heart is braking right now but maybe if you tell him to stop right now what it is he is doing maybe he will.If not tell him you would like to go with him if he gets mad at you for wanting to go that only means one thing he has a girlfriend he is going to see and using his brothers friend as cover up.Did you ever ask him if that friend has a sister. Hey you down there THOMAS forget about the guy code it isn't working here for us women anymore we are wise to you men.
2007-02-23 15:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are crazy, he's obviously not giving you the time and respect you deserve. and chances are he might of met someone else he is interested in. don't sit around and just let him worry you. occupy yourself with activities to keep your mind busy while he's somewhere else and when he does come home show him some love, maybe all you guys need is a romantic night together, rekindle the fire. let him know how much you need him to be with you. don't give up right away.its only been one year, if your not happy don't waste your time,there's another man out there who might just be waiting for you.
2007-02-24 00:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by lovebunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is definetly amist. i cant say for sure if its cheating. it does sound like the beginning stages of him trying to. some guys go through stages of not having sex as much as they normally do but this sounds alittle fishy. i say call him out on it and see what reaction you get. if you dont like what you hear then one of you should start making other living arrangements. communication is key.
2007-02-24 00:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a cause for concern.... ur not crazy.. even I would question that.... ask him... and if he is leave him.. one thing i hate the most is when a girl or guy stays with a cheating boyfriend or girlfriend... then they wont respect u for sure after that.... too many diseases out there u gotta take care of #1... you!!
2007-02-23 23:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might now be cheating on you at all so dont do anything stupid if you dont have any proof. He might be under alot of stress! Help him out a bit and talk to him about what might be bothering him or troubling him.
2007-02-23 23:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Aly Marie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him...ask him what is going on. Ask him if there's something that is bothering him that needs to be discussed. Let him know that you have noticed a difference and that you'd like to discuss it to see what, if anything, needs to be done.
2007-02-23 23:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to ask him what is happening to your realationship because if you two will just keep everything then you will really distrust each other don't you worry may be his work is really sressful and may be his environment has really affected him. every problem can be resolve if someone will ask and act about something.
2007-02-23 23:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas Odin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but he prolly is...or hes just gettin sick of you and wants to have a new relationship with sum1else..or maybe hes just too tired to do it..my best guess is he just wants to be with sum1 else or think aobut it and ask urself maybe ur gettin on hihs last nerve..are u doing anything thats bothering..maybe ur too clingy or ur pressuring him aobut sumfin like gettin married..he might now be ready to commit and thats his fear so hes tryin to slwoly get rid of u or sumfin like dat
2007-02-23 23:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes definetly cheating on you. dump him, you probably deserve better. oh, and dont give him a second chance- after all, "once a cheater always a cheater". good luck :)
2007-02-23 23:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by princessvirgo_109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uffff omgthats weird watch him for another week n he doesnt change u talk to him Coño! lol and ask him wats happening?
2007-02-23 23:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋