I have been seeing this guy since about January 1st.. we met on yahoo personals... anyways.. we have decided to date, " I didn't know there was a difference between dating/seeing, apparently if you are seeing someone, they are able to see other people? idunno, what he said" We have agreed to stay excusive, which means no other partners.. I prefer that, and I have voiced my opinion about the issue.. Anyways.. I know that he has an ad on every personals site there is/some with his d**k picture, other pictures of himself.. all you have to do is type in the area he lives in, even without subscribing, and his name/pic pops up.. he said he did it to reach a larger group of people, because not everyone uses 1 site... I really wish he would delete every single one of them while we are dating, is this wrong of me? should I just trust what he is saying is true? I don't want to make him mad, afterall I went to these sites (without subscribing) and looked up his name/area. thanks for any help!
2007-02-23 15:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I took my (1) ad off of yahoo right after we started seeing eachother.
2007-02-23 15:18:56 · update #1
I have so many questions... like about where the relationship is going, but don't want to scare him away, we haven't been together long, and it has been going great..
2007-02-23 15:19:54 · update #2
I'm in college, and he works from home/travels a bit for his job.. we see eachother on the weekends/during the week some.... I want to trust him so much, but dont want to end up with a broken heart, like what happened in a previous relationship... Thanks to everyone who gives advice!
2007-02-23 15:21:28 · update #3
I would suggest that you always practice safer sex in these circumstances. When you know him better, you can discuss getting tests. As far as the relationship goes, I hope it works out for you.
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2016-10-16 09:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arent wrong for wanting him to take the pictures down, I totally understand...even being with him a day he really should, I mean you did it for him, you realized obviously it wasnt right.
Try talking to him about it, tell him how it makes you feel, and add in the reasons you took yours down.
Hopefully he respects you enough to take them down, I know its not a HUGE relationship problem, but if small things like these are happening in the beginning, than whats the future goign to be like, you know?
If he doesnt take them down after talkign I would reconsider the relationship, its better to get out early, than when you are totally in love and feel "Trapped".
Its all up to you.
2007-02-23 15:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through something similar and the person obviously didn't give a F * * K. Cause even when they said they were going to take them all off. This person just created new one's and I found those too. So good luck, but I would say be careful cause this is a good look into his future behavior!
E-mail if you need to.
'-)
2007-02-23 15:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are rushing things.
you started out on jan 1st.
we are talking about 50 days here.
i am going thru the same thing with a guy
so i know what you are saying.
i care about him with all my heart.
i got checked for std's and aids and told him the results.
we haven't done anything yet, but we will get
around to it. and it will be soon.
he knows i love him and he is holding back because
i know he plays the field.
my advice to you is this.:
ask yourself if you have the keys to his heart.
if you question this, then start seeing other people
and find one that will give you the keys to his heart first.
this is the hapiness you seek.
good luck.
2007-02-23 17:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a 1 on 1 relationship, he wants to be with other people.
2007-02-23 15:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not wrong of you at all, and i tought that seeing someone is dating them you dont have to mention that it is exclusively just you two. why dose he still have pics on the websites any way? is he still using them? sounds kinda fishy to me. if he really likes you then he will take down the pics when you ask him to, just be nice about it and not demanding. i hope that helps!
2007-02-23 15:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Speak freely 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering the fact that you mutually agreed to be exclusive i don't think he should mind at all if you ask him to remove the adds.
i know i certainly would remove them.
2007-02-23 15:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋