and they walk away mad, what is better to do... let them go and clear their head or go after them to talk it out?
2007-02-23 15:14:05 · 24 answers · asked by experiMENTAL bunny 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I let them go.
They left. They can come back.
I'm not chasing after anybody.
2007-02-23 15:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Montez Grl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them clear their head but if it takes a long time for them to come back and talk it out. Then I get mad....That is like leaving someone hanging at a bad time. I would rather just sit and talk it out as soon as possible
2007-02-23 15:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that someone does not know the techniques of "fair fighting"., This implies finding a grain of truth in the others argument to validate them in some way. It also involves reminding the other how much you care about them.
The original question demands heads to cleat: walk away and try again. However, if tools are not present forr conflict resolution, it will persists. read on conflict resolution.
read this:
http://www.rider.edu/~suler/psycyber/conflict.html
2007-02-23 15:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let them go for a little maybe then talk. But I like the argument to get over with
2007-02-23 15:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~~~~~~******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let them walk away and clear their head, then talk to them again.
2007-02-23 15:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious the argument is. If something serious...don't let them walk away so upset. If arguing over something silly...maybe let them have their space and give both of you time to think about things.
2007-02-23 15:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them go and clear their head, but not to long, life is to short to argue, or be unhappy, If you care about them then tell them that.
2007-02-23 15:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them go and after cooling off call them or see them to talk it over.
2007-02-23 15:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If the person is easy to get along with and is able to resolve the matter that way, then go after him/her but if it someone who is aggressive or abusive when he/she is mad, let 'em go.
2007-02-23 15:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by jaybas_2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stupid me always go after them to talk it out... but it never gotten me anywhere... but more arguments.. think its best for them to clear their head.. and call them the next day...
2007-02-23 15:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by gina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them have some time alone ..I would not run after them and put more pressure on the situation..........if you care about each other..it 'll work out.......
2007-02-23 15:18:22 · answer #11 · answered by shasha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋