I'm a nice guy, I always treat girls with respect, I'm funny, pretty handsome, smart, always think of them before myself, I don't come on to strong but at the same time I don't stray away, talk to them, listen, you now basically everything. i play school sports,
But i've been rejected, used, left in the middle of a date for the ex, stood up, one girl even asked me out didn't show up and then laughed at me, i've been played, acted like they like me, say they didn't like me then get mad when i try to move on
What am i doing wrong? It's Killing me..... Can you give me some tips or something?
2007-02-23 14:59:39 · 17 answers · asked by Theoretically Speaking 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think there's truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last." Hang in there, girls will start to appreciate you.
2007-02-23 15:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very commendable of you, I mean you describe yourself as a decent young man, you hardly can find them these days, keep it up. But maybe you are going out with the wrong type of girls. Look at their personality first and foremost. Notice them for a period of time before making your move and I hope you will find a nice one.
2007-02-23 23:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by jaybas_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you.
it's not, you it's them girls you're dating. And try to put a border on being nice and respecting yourself too. Sometimes you can say no or take control, show them your worth.
2007-02-23 23:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're letting it bother you. People do mean things because they like to see people sweat. Like my husband says don't let them see you sweat. Shrug it off and remember there is someone out there for you that will treat you right. You gotta kiss a lot of toads before you find a prince. (Or princess in your case) Good luck.
2007-02-23 23:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change. People can be cruel. It will be worth the wait and the pain when that one perfect match for you comes along and loves you for who you are and can't imagine being with anyone else. You sound really sweet, so it will happen.
2007-02-23 23:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by RebeccaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue being yourself. Don't change. A nice girl will come along sooner or later.
2007-02-23 23:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As bad as I hate to say it, maybe you are being too nice. Stick up for yourself a little more. Don't be a doormat or women won't respect you. Don't be a jerk, just be a little more assertive. :)
2007-02-23 23:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bean62960 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. This is a tough question to answer. All I can think of is maybe they're threatened by you. Be patient, one day you will meet a girl who likes you for realsies.
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2007-02-23 23:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Chimpanzees? Monkey. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like high school to me. it may not mean much now..but someday a girl is going to appreciate all those qualities in you. or you could take Carol R's advice... she does have a point
2007-02-23 23:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by nascarmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish there were more guys like you! i have no idea what is wrong with these girls..you sound like a great guy!
with time the right girl will come..just continue to be yourself and before you know it she'll be right there waiting for you
2007-02-23 23:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by M E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋