2007-02-23 14:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you see what you see because you still want to do so somehow, (it could be subconsciously)
you can't say goodbye if you still want to and still need to attract "yesterday" somehow
So, you can say goodbye only when you stop focusing on: "stopping seeing yesterday" because that very same strong thought keeps bringing yesterday back and back again in your mind and in your present reality... sort of like a song that has stuck there and you try to get it off but the more you think of getting rid of it the more it plays because the very thought of forgetting it is making you feed it and strenghtening more and more.
2007-02-23 14:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question. Can I assume by the way the question is put, that you are recovering from some sort of emotional trauma? Breakdown of a relationship perhaps? I assume you can talk, though you cannot talk to time. Or entity's in it. "Today" will always have reminders of "yesterday" in it. See if you can step back into "yesterday" and reconcile your differences with it. If you can, then yesterday will disappear completely. If you cannot I strongly advise therapy to help you move from where you are at right now. I don't know your whole story so its difficult for me to say. Maybe you only feel as though you are constantly being reminded of yesterday because that is where you are stuck, "yesterday". Talk to a professional or to trusted friend/family member. you can, of course talk on the web. My time and expertise (BSc Psy, Diploma) is free. Good luck
2007-02-23 15:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by newworldbrave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see yesterday everywhere because you keep thinking of it. Stop thinking of yesterday and think of tomorrow, think of the good things that could happen tomorrow if you forget about yesterday and have a positive attitude.
2007-02-23 18:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Frankie T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going there. Stop looking for reminders. You can not live today in yesterday, and it could all be over tomorrow. Better to get on with a new and different destination.
2007-02-23 14:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant say goodbye to yesterdy cuz it what made u here today and what made u become u today so of course, yesterday will be all around u...
dont say goodbye to it but keep walking and then slowly you will leave it in the behind as time goes by :)
hope that helps ...
2007-02-23 14:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by mystic_fish_white 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By ceasing to look back, and turning to look toward tomorrow instead. You cannot change yesterday; tomorrow has yet to exist. The only thing you can affect is NOW.
2007-02-23 14:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can anyone stop tomorrow from coming,likwise you can not delete yesterday ,it is meant to be there always,all one can try to do is to make the best of today,so that when this becomes yesterday,one will look back and like what one sees.
2007-02-23 14:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by sailani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you start out by making a "guh" sound. Like this: "Guh .. guh .. guh." Then you just stretch that out, into "Guh..oodbye." Just practice a little. You'll get it.
2007-02-23 14:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not looking back and pretend you dont care and dont see it.
2007-02-23 15:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look somewhere else
2007-02-23 14:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋