what do you do when you can't stand a person giving you an atittude but your lips are sealed because others think that person is 'cool' i just feel like an idiot everytime this girl gives me an attitude and all i do is stand there or walkaway.
2007-02-23 14:31:32 · 15 answers · asked by Creme Brulee' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I was you I would give her attitude right back. Who cares if others think she is cool. You need to stand up for yourself.
2007-02-23 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The proof is in the pudding, and what goes around comes around. Attitude is an ugly thing. I agree you don't want to imitate her. But if you want to put her in her place, you will need an opportunity. Something to take the wind out of her sails. An opportunity to be clear, concise, deliberate, bold, and powerful. It could be anything that she displays as important. You need to anticipate her move and take her one step further. Show her what is right, or just, or so forth. Be a leader. Be better than her. You will either need to speak out, or take some action. Stand your ground. It takes conviction, courage, and timing. Plan you strategy some, identify her weakness. Do something that counts, that others can recognize or relate to.
2007-02-23 23:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something ten times worse. That's how you have to be in this world because that will show them not to mess with you. Just because people think she is cool doesn't mean she is just cuz someone has alot of friends doesn't make them a good person. Just ignore them and walk away and forget they ever existed because people that love to make other peoples life a living hell shouldn't be here in the first place.
2007-02-23 22:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by youngmec2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her off just because people think she is cool doesn't mean that can stop you from telling her to stop giving you that little attitude of hers. because standing there or walking away is giving her a sign that she can give you an attitude all over again anytim she wants and you won't stand up for yourself.
2007-02-23 22:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh, I dont. If someone says something, and I have an opinion to share, I share it. If someone gets mad because of that, its their problem. Honetly. Speak your mind. When you do, you are going to fill alot better about yourself. Build up some confidence.
This doesn't mean freak out and yell at this person. Just politely say, "thats realyl rude of you to say" or "I dont agree with that". If someone gives you attitude, be the bigger person, but dont hesitate to put them in their place.
I have a feeling if you do, others will follow and most likely stick up with you. And if they dont, why worry about pissing this one person off. Clearly you don't really like her, so hang out with peope you do.
2007-02-23 22:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be true to yourself ! don't be a pushover and dont let people walk over you. if this person continues to give you attitude let them know., pull them over to the side and say " do you a problem with me"? name calling and asking in a defensive way only gets a negative reaction, approach them like an adult (on a bad day I would go straight up Queens style on them but say no to violence or so my conscience says) lol
If the problem continues, just stay away from the person and "dust it off" !
good luck
2007-02-23 22:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Eyelovme2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you stand up to that person with an attitude those people will think your cool as well,show the cowards that you have a backbone to give it right back.that's how she intimidates people ,deep down she is a coward.show her attitude,seeing she thrives on centring you out,give it right back,she will be lost for words.
2007-02-23 22:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the person they might be a loser if they insult you tell them to shut up before i stuff their head up there mom's @s2!
2007-02-23 22:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to stop giving u the attitude and it doesn't matter if she is cool or not.
2007-02-23 22:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a backbone,,believe in yourself & speak your mind.Dont ever let anyone intimidate you.The sooner you learn this in life,,the better.
2007-02-23 22:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋