2007-02-23 14:28:54 · 24 answers · asked by louraylou17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also told her she could keep password secret but to let me see her emails she also refused .
2007-02-23 14:34:58 · update #1
Nope....but f*** her till she says otherwise...lol
just kidding
2007-02-23 14:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife's work email password has nothing that would pertain to you associated with it. It is her WORK password and is to be used for job related purposes only. If she were to give you her password she would get fired because you are not entitled to know ANYTHING about the sensetive material her job entails, and getting fired for passing on a work related email account password would probably keep her from getting work elsewhere as it would mean she could not be trusted...that is why employers do background checks on prospective employees, to check out their character and trustworthyness. Your wife giving you her password would make her totatlly untrustworthy and therefore unemployable because even fast food joints won't hire dishonest people to say "would you like fries with that". So decide which is more important to you, snooping into your wife's work related emails or her job?
2007-02-23 17:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my office I have a lot of confidential information in my files. I give my password to NO ONE. That doesn't mean I'm not to be trusted. It means I am trustworthy.
It would be against the law if I gave my emails and such to even my husband from my job. That is wrong anyway. That stuff at my office is confidential And I do not share it with anyone other than other employees on a need to know basis.
2007-02-23 14:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with your wife! her personal emails are none of your business, just as if she were keeping a diary or journal of personal thoughts. every individual, married or not, has the right to have a private space. just because you're married does not mean you have to know everything. there are things she'll probably never share with you as her husband, but she may share in the company of other women. you must be bored, or insecure if you're trying to get in to her work email. even if you think you've got a justifible reason, you have no right to her work email password. plus that is company information, which you aren't allowed to have if she isn't self-employed.
2007-02-23 15:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so, i like to be the only one that knows my passwords just for privacy but not really to hide something just because i like to have a secret. also an email account has many emails coming in, if u open one of them then it is marked as read, so if u open it then she wont be able to read it. just give her her space and dont be so nosy, if u suspect something is wrong then talk to her about it.
2007-02-23 14:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by nina del barrio fino 516~Fo Sho~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly, have you asked yourself why you want her password? I mean, is there some suspicion that you have that makes you want to read her e-mails? If not, then I don't think you should have her password. Although married, each spouse is still entitled to a little separate privacy. She probably doesn't have anything to hide. She just wants something that strictly belongs to her.
2007-02-23 14:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by stldiva22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm assuming you aren't controlling and posessive or a real jerk....because those might be good reasons to NOT let you read the emails. Perhaps she is complaining about your behavior? You would know, wouln't you? So, if I were in her shoes, and my husband (who is not controlling or a jerk) asked to read my emails and told me it would go a long way towards helping him deal w/insecurity, I would say fine. In fact, my hubby knows my password, and I have no problem with it....although if he actually 'pretended' to be me to send emails, I would have a big problem.
2007-02-23 15:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she able to access her work email from home? Or do you go to work with her? Where would you have access to her professional work email?
you are either insecure or she has exhibited other suspicious behavior and you suspect she has been communicating with someone inappropriately via that email address.
My own husband wouldn't dream of asking me to compromise the confidentiality laws that apply. You need to leave her employer and anything to do with her job out of whatever you think is going on.
2007-02-23 15:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous dude. Everyone has a right to privacy. It doesn't mean they have something to hide. Not to mention she could jeopardize her job giving you access to her email. Grow up. Marriage doesn't mean you own a person. It's called trust. Look it up.
2007-02-23 14:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by kallie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids? She might just want one thing private for herself. Between my husband and daughter everything of my seems to be open for them at all times. They go in my dresser, in my bathroom drawers, in my purse, my car, etc. I have a password to log on to my computer account just so I can have one thing that's only mine. There's nothing I'm trying to hide, I just want this one thing that when I go into it, it's exactly the way I left it. That's all!
2007-02-23 14:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by heatt28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should be zero secrets in a marriage. But it's true the fact that you even want this seems to indicate she has given you other reasons to not trust her. Without trust a relationship is in deep trouble and needs a serious get well plan. I would guess she has something to hide...and by the way her loyalty to you should supercede her loyalty to her employer and their policies.
Best of luck to the both of you.
2007-02-23 14:41:42 · answer #11 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋