2007-02-23 14:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Dulce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Usually total change in behavior. Can swing either way. Sometimes the signs are indifference, lack of interest in you, the family, etc. evasiveness, lack of communication. This behavior usually stems from total lack of guilt for what they are doing. Unfortunately it can also be the other way where they are suddenly attentive, sexually demanding, and unnaturally happy. This behavior stems usually stems out of guilt and the attempt to cover up. In other words, if there is a dramatic change in behavior that has no reason that you are aware off.
2007-02-23 14:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rosaline M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You asking the question for the signs is a sign hon. We all have intuition....act on it. If something is not right, ask some questions. Snooping gets you nowhere but standing there looking and feeling foolish. Think about it...nine times out of ten, everyone that has discovered someone cheating on them says "I knew it!". Go with your gut. Don't be made a fool.
2007-02-23 14:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're asking this question you already know the answers. you're just confirming that you're not crazy.
1. change in behavior is a big clue.
2. lying
3.acccusing you of cheating
4. staying out late or not coming home.
5. doesn't want to be intimate with you.
it's time for you to evaluate what the relationship means to you and sit down w/ your man and ask him if he want to continue the relationship or not and tell him you want honesty. it's better to move on and be alone than to stay and be a fool. just be prepared to hear and accept the truth before you have this conversation. i wish you the best.
2007-02-23 14:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buying gifts for u at first,than it appears they are not in the marriage, things that use to please them no longer do, they aren't as attentive, make excuses to go out meet friends, they may come home from work and shower when they never did this before, do they take telephone calls in the other room, do they check the phone for calls on the caller id, when they never did it before, are they suddenly working out of town, at odd jobs, but u never see any money, do they complain alot about life, have they told u they regretted the marriage, do they find fault, name call, and suddenly disrespect u and they never did this before? do they avoid u, by sleeping alot, or do they stay up later at night and don't come to bed. are they paying alot more attention to their looks, and personal hygene, are they not looking u in the eye when u talk to them. is there a difference in the way their family treats u? did they suddenly get a cell phone when they never had one before? has there been a change in sex with them? are they somehow doing things differently with u than before? has sex become almost non existant with them. your intuition tells u something is terribbly wrong but u just can't put your finger on it, or figure out how to make it better. does he fly off the handle at small things, or pick fights, he is disconnecting from u, and trying to find reasons any reason to walk out on u, but doesnt want to be the bad guy. he doesn't want his family to blame him. att his point any little arguement will cause him to leave so he can be with her.
2007-02-23 22:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spouse not hearing you - in a world of their own
Coming home late often
Dressing and grooming more so than normal
More private phone calls
Less sex for you
Sometimes gifts (a sign of guilt)
Less going out with you
Less communication
2007-02-23 14:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first sign is that you have to ask what the signs of infidelity are......and HE has bought new underwear
2007-02-23 14:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he comes home and you go down on him and take a whiff of some other ladies parts on his member. I'd say that's a pretty good indicator.
2007-02-23 14:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im guessing if he or she shows no interest in you...regards to everyday life, and doesnt kiss you hug you shows no kind of affection and no sex... or if he has a guilty conscience..he will buy you things out of the ordinary and be overly nice... just depends on what kind of person they are...
2007-02-23 14:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the eyes will tell it all... ask the person a wquestion that you know that the anwer is a lie and see how they look... for example if you know they hate your hair sk them do i have nice hair.. obviously they will say yes, and see how they look when they do... that way you know when they are lying... one sure way to know is to see if they look away.
2007-02-23 14:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by emmabean 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋