he says he loves me but he lies and i keep track of his email
2007-02-23 14:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by josette r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already know the answer and so move on.You have already wasted 2 1/2 years on this goof.He doesn't love you.....hell he doesn't even respect you.
2007-02-23 14:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I really don't see how you made it this far, you must have put up with alot of crap, I'm sorry, but he can not love you and lie to you and turn around and then sign up for dating service, and you need to keep track of his e-mail, so that tells me, theres no trust, once theres no trust in a relationship, its over, theres no going back, I don't think no one can ever truly trust the other person once that trust has been broken, But Your Call
Good Luck
2007-02-23 15:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, did he fill out the profile for himself and is he responding to emails he get from the dating service? Or did he do it just to check out other peoples profiles because he was bored or just curious? Those are some things you need to find out first before you make any rash decisions. If he is responding and planning something then I wouldn't put up with it at all. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out for the best.
2007-02-23 14:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Vicki B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to always start like this. My husband started doing this and it made me try and keep up with his every move online. Turns out, he was looking for someone new.(We were together 4 years). It is honestly up to you on what you think but if a man loves you, then he shouldn't have to go "looking" on online dating services. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 15:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by mommy2be031207 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loves you, he`s got to be kidding ! Don`t let him make a fool out of u, get rid of him fast, u can do better than a liar and a cheat. If u love him, time will help u get over him, if u keep him around, ur in for a big heartbreak.
2007-02-23 14:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear,have put in 6 friggin hard years with ny ex- not spending any $-he said we have to save for retirement(ha-ha) didn't know that he meant HIS retirement.drove 20 miles each way -daily to be with him.Paid for my empty apt. for the 6 yrs,knowing that something just wasn't right enough to get rid of it. Found out that he has been on the dating service for 2 yrs. found #..for 3 girls.pm-dating ameturer sex pm- etc.He gave me herpies,he said the blisters were from laundry detergent.hasn,t called me,joined up with a friend at work,they now are looking for different girls for the weekends. I'm 54-he's 58...THANKS TO VIAGRA these old asses will give up their whole lives for some young stuff! Can't wait till she finds out that hes so cheap,he squeeks!!Dump him..mark my words dear girl,don't say I didn't warn you!
2007-02-23 15:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by loveyouoshinystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUMP HIM. Are you so naive to believe all his bull when he's signed up for a dating service, you've caught him in lies and evidently found stuff in his mail? When are YOU going to wake up and DUMP HIM. You just pissed away 2 1/2 years of your life on this loser.
2007-02-23 14:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you think you can trust him???????????Loves is a 4 letter word same a cheat .Your already sneaking around checking up on him .The trust is gone there is no future in what your doing,Are you going to follow him around check everything, till you make yourself sick.
This is your call. He does not respect you.
Best of luck
2007-02-23 14:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sign up for the same service and respond to his ad. See what his answer/response will be. But no matter what his answer or excuse is dump his dumb ***!
2007-02-23 14:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why? This guy is cheating and he lies and you do not trust him. Why are you still with him? Kick him to the curb and don't look back.
2007-02-23 14:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋