2007-02-23 14:11:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
why start the marriage off on a lie
2007-02-23 14:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love? Yes. Honor? Yes. Obey? No Way. That word "obey" is probably the reason why couples starting writing their own wedding vows.
2007-02-23 20:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but conversely, a man should vow to "love, honor, and cherish" his wife; and I believe in the phrase "as long as you both shall live" instead of "until I find the concept of marriage to this person unpalatable, or I find someone that is hotter, richer or (fill in the blank)." I'm a little old fashioned that way.
2007-02-23 14:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a couple chooses what style of wedding they want. If they want a Christian, Traditional one, they will use these line.
Love- Honor- Trust
Love- Honor- Cherish
are two great options, if a non traditional vow is chosen.
2007-02-23 14:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell, if the groom has to make sacrifices, then DAMMIT, the bride should to...if they don't vow to do the same thing, it's like a loop-hole in the marriage. "I can cheat on you, she'd say, I didn't vow to honor you!"
2007-02-23 14:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Acqualles A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you get into enough trouble with that other question about having the women get real dependent on a man???? Mrs. Sandstorm will get you!
Love, Honor her husband. Get that OBEY crap out of there....you are from the dark days.
2007-02-23 14:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by missellie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Those words were not in our marriage vows. The word cherish replaced obey, and I did. He apparently did not. So does that make me wrong? I think not.
2007-02-23 19:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Snoodsmom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure, as long as it is mutual and the husband vows to do the same thing.
2007-02-23 14:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Powered by Rice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She does in her wedding vows, but so does the man.
It's 2007 Sandy!
2007-02-23 14:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of these days all that's left to you will be mail order brides. Good luck with that.
2007-02-23 14:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if the husband promises the same to her.
2007-02-24 15:09:39 · answer #11 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋