Ok, first of all my husband and I practice domestic discipline where he punishes me for misbehavior, ie. spanking. This is completely consentual. So I don't want any negative or hurtfull remarks about this. Please keep it to yourself.
I've heard other wives on here say that they are spanked but do any of you also get cornertime. Or maybe you only get corneritme. My husband sends me to the corner usually after a spanking for on average 20 minutes bare bottom regardless of who happens to see me or walk in. Anyone else?
2007-02-23 14:09:48 · 21 answers · asked by Kate M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...but its sounds really funny....lol
2007-02-23 14:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by DON 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Although I am very much into consensual spanking between adults, I am less happy about it being witnessed by someone else, other than with prior consent of all concerned.
I know that cornertime is important to some participants, but, personally, I get very little from it as a post-spanking occurance. However, I have found that having cornertime before a spanking can be quite stimulating - if you know what I mean !!!
2007-02-26 10:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
While I'm not married (or female, for that matter), I do live in a domestic discipline relationship with my roommate. There are some things that she tends to slip up about, and I discipline (spank) her for them when they arise. This is a mutual agreement. Contrary to some of the above answers, such a relationship doesn't necessarily involve Master/slave or D/s, nor does it involve us not being equals. It is simply an understanding that there are things in her life that she needs and wants help with, and I assist her in those areas. If you go to a therapist, are you belittling yourself for seeking help? Of course not, and this is no different.
2016-05-24 04:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite the question! I am very lucky in that my girlfriend likes being spanked and I love giving her spankings. We use them as a regular part of playing, but never hard enough to hurt much...but she does get her buns reddened.
She is not submissive. That is, I don't order her around or put her in the corner. It's just the discipline she likes. She's always had a little bit of raunchy streak in her...she still likes doing "it" in the car and wearing short skirts for me even though many her same age (38) doesn't like it.
I am lucky that way, I guess. As for spankings, as long as the girl (or guy, yes, she has spanked me a few times and I like a firm swat when we are having sex) is on board with it, what's the problem?
2007-02-25 09:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Robbie trd 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I have a question of my own. What exactly do you have to do to get spanked and/or corner time? I mean what is considered misbehavior: spending too much, staying out too late, etc. Just curious.
All I have to say - is if this is what you and your husband enjoy then have fun!
2007-02-23 15:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by methosgal13 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
When I was fortunate enough to be involved in a dd relationship (this was early-to-mid 90's), I frequently made corner time a part of the spanking. There was some corner time before, and some corner time after. The corner time before was to allow her the opportunity to anticipate what was about to happen. The corner time after was for contemplation.
I hope you don't get any judgmental crap from people. Thanks for posting your question. I hope you get the honest, frank answers you're looking for.
2007-02-26 03:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You can call it domestic discipline all you want, but all it really is is a dominate/submissive relationship. If it works for the two of you, great. But it doesn’t work for most people, so I doubt you're going to find many on here that can relate (maybe a few, but not many). If you’re interested in speaking with others who share your...'passion', then I understand there are clubs/groups/etc. I’d advise you to search them out.
2007-02-23 14:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by kp 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
OK if Ur OK about being spanked by Ur husband then that's fine but making u stand in corner bare butt is over the top.
y do u do it if u don't like it? y don't u just cover up or walk outta room?
U say he don't care about who See's u standing there but does he spank u as well if others r there and r u happy about that?
2007-02-25 02:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I know of quite a few couples who practise DD - and, like you, they all seem to have a mutually satisfying relationship. So if it works for you both, then why not?
And unlike kris55a, I'd love to be your neighbour. The idea of walking into your house and seeing you standing there in the corner with your rosy spanked cheeks on display sounds quite delicious...
2007-02-23 22:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
What kind of misbehavior are you doing that requires a spanking to begin with? Do get to spank him if he does something inappropriate as well?
2007-02-27 07:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by ndra 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think you are absolutly crazy with you and your husband first of all does he spank you hard I mean this could be serious a man suchas ur husband should not ever treat you like a 5 year old kid I think you should think this relationship over
2007-02-23 14:49:34 · answer #11 · answered by goodcharlotteccc 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋